2006-06-26 12:01:36 · 19 answers · asked by SEXY KIMOLA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you weren't comfortable with it you could talk to her. But as long as you are okay with it then who cares - if they are happy together then let them be.
2006-06-26 12:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would never date someone who my friend has dated. If it were really that important to date this guy, then I would ASK my friend first. It would just be awkward, is all and a matter of respect to my friend to not date him. There are plenty of guys out there, so I don't see this as a problem. Plus I'm not into sloppy seconds.
2006-06-26 12:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends never cross the line.. True friends are like family, if you say ok now, you will pay later, what happens if you get married it is ok to have some 2? TRUE friends have a bonded law no matter what some things you don't do, but maybe your friendshipis not that strong to understand at level of trust and understanding
2006-06-26 12:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your okay with it then leave it alone. it probably won't last and you don't want to hurt your friendship for a guy. Now if you dislike the fact then you need to be honest with your friend and let her know that your not ok with the situation. By doing so you leave it up to her to decide between you and her bf. If she values your friendship she will walk away and if she doesn't then let it be and go on with your life with or without her. Life is to short to worry about petit stuff like this.
2006-06-26 12:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hope they talked to you about it first. If I really loved the guy, then I might have a bit of a hard time, but I'd get over it, long as they're happy. If I plain don't care, then yeah, don't care. If I hated the guy with a firey passion... well, I might try to keep my friend away from him just to make him suffer. :)
2006-06-26 12:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend went out with my ex. directly after he & I split. they ended up married & have 2 kids now. Been married 28 years now. Never been a problem. they are the most well suited couple i know.
2006-06-26 12:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy for them. Just because you and that person did not hit it off does not mean that the person is not good for your friend. it's not like they are committing incest!
My only advice is for you to stay out of their personal affair. You don't want to lose your friend because he/she thought that you were trying to sabbotage.
Now if your sister was thinking about dating your father that would be a problem.
2006-06-26 12:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by happybujok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't really say much,it's over with you and him,if it was worth all that, then you and would be still together,don't be hate'n,just don't offer any info on the dude,that was him with you..and not the other way around...let her find out her way and in her time...don't let something so small get in the way if your even close to one another. In the end,be the bigger person.
2006-06-26 12:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy Munchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never seen a problem with this one ... people are just selfish when it comes to EX's ... I think it's crappy !
They might be perfect together and who are you or anybody else to say they can't be together.
If they're happy then be happy for them .. if you can't handle being mature about it then don't be friends with them .. !
2006-06-26 12:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you care about if she/he goes out with the person you were going out with? You've stopped dating them; obviously you must not like them as much as you used to.
2006-06-26 12:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kaylie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋