Ok does anybody know some like services or anything that would be very helpful to me the baby and the mommy? We do not want to put it up for adoption i'm adopted myself and i couldn't put someone through that and as for abortion you might as well kill me first
2006-06-26 12:00:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You must have much outside support (financial and emotional) to consider keeping a child at your age. Have you truly thought of the implications of this birth and how it will affect you and your families? I'd never advocate abortion, but adoption is an option you really should look at in a case like yours. I'm not sure what your adoption experience was, but the majority of adoptees are reasonably happy.
There are pregnancy centers that have programs directed at teen parents. Check with local hospitals, too, they have teen parenting classes.
Whatever you do, wait until you are older to make a decision about getting married. Marriage is a big step and you have not seen enough of the world or experienced enough to make as a wise decision about that. Teen marriages fail much more often than not, especially with the emotional and financial strain of raising a child.
2006-06-26 20:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by G.V. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well getting an adoptions are very important its many things that you have to think about it you a men to stick up in her in you know what happen at times in she was good for laying her back she should know what is going to happen so y'all should keep y'all baby it will mean alot to you in will change your live (maybe) but why would you want to kill an baby did you get killed whats the point of the baby even coming out if yall going to kill it well you should really think about what you are going to do about this but don't get an adoption because it can hurt you in many ways you might not be able to even sleep with that you are going to kill your baby in sometimes its the best that can happen to you so just think about.
2006-06-26 19:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by lilstogirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...so let me get this straight...You don't want to put the baby up for adoption and you don't want to have the mother get an abortion...Then honestly...you should be able to answer your own question...Keep that baby!!
Would you consider your family adopting the baby, instead of some stranger?
16??!! Sorry to hear you have put yourself in that predicament...Good Luck!
2006-06-26 19:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by morenaza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~~contact me on messenger, and depending on your area i may be able to locate resources for you. I worked for 10+ years as a crisis intervention counselor and mainly dealt with teens in crisis pregnancy situations. there is help out there, take heart, and congratulations on your little son or daughter. im glad to hear that you are wanting to be responsible and do what you can for your child and the mom of your baby. if you would like me to help you out, click on my avatar, and add me to messenger, just let me know in the request who you are and i'll add you in and do what i can. Good luck~~
2006-06-26 19:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well DONT do abortion or adotion. just keep the baby, and maybe sign up for some help, like WIC, my sister was 16 when she had her kid, and they help out with teens who's family cant afford it.
2006-06-26 19:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes congrats! in the age of 16,u can prolly have part time job while studying! dont worry,peeps around you will help you!
congrats daddy!
2006-06-27 01:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by nahleens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the is nothing like that.most babies born to teens get adopted so really you dont have any options.
2006-06-26 19:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by That one guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try looking up the web about this information in your local area.
congradulations!
2006-06-26 19:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man about it
2006-06-26 22:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋