We have 2 children and he was very abusive to me and the kids when were together. As soon as I signed the divorce papers, me and the kids moved to another state. Now he is always asking me whether I have gotten remarried or not. He has. But I do not see how that is any of his business. He claims legally he has a right to know.
2006-06-26 11:59:33 · 23 answers · asked by abrinaus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just wasn't if by law he had a right or not to know.
2006-06-26 12:08:35 · update #1
I have full custody and the boys haven't seen him in 6 years. He's always been late on CS, but when he found out me and the kids bought a house last year support is super late.
2006-06-26 12:10:36 · update #2
nooooooooooo he has no rights to ask you that and then he is remarried?? tell him to mind his business at home and send your child support payment on time.. that is what.
the only thing he needs to know is where to send the money i hope you slapped his *** with child support and i hope he has supervised visitations with the kids if he was abusive...you better talk that over with your lawyer.and do not let him intimidate you you have to be strong and direct with him,good luck honey.
2006-06-26 12:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have kids together (if he has partial custody or visitation) I would guess he would have the right to know if you are remarried. The question he is asking is a simple one - just tell him and get on with it - it's not like he's asking you anything super personal. If he really wanted to know he could always find it in public records - so you wouldn't be telling him anything he couldn't already find out.
2006-06-26 12:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, an ex is just that, an ex. He's got his life, and you've got yours. Your life is none of his business. If he claims he legally has a right to know, then ask him to show you the law, in YOUR state. If he starts bothering you, don't hesitate to involve the authorities in this. Nip it in the bud quickly. If he doesn't even have vistation rights, change your number to unlisted and unpublished...there would be no reason for him to call if he's lost all rights. If you don't stand up to him now, he'll just keep on running over you. Best of luck to you.........
2006-06-26 12:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 07:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right by law, to know if you gotten marry or not. He is trying to control you, even if he is not with you anymore. He is feeding on your weakness, stand up and tell him. That is none of his business, what happens in your love life.
If you keep messing with a fool, you be a fool yourself.
2006-06-26 12:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him,,,,,,I would make sure that every time I talked to him that he knew I was the happiest person in the world. I would also rub it in his face that his children were so happy and that the new guy was such a blessing and so on.
The only reason he wants to know, is b/c of control
2006-06-26 12:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt have the right to know anything except about your kids anything else it is none of his business, my ex wanted to know if i was pregnate and i told him it was none of his buisness and he still wanted to know, my ex wasalso abusive and still wanted to have control even after we have been out of each other lives for almost ten years,, he still thinks he can control me even though i have his son and he is in jail.i am waiting tillthe day my sone turn 18 so he wont have to call my home anymore(he will be 18 in 5 years). i wont have to worry about him calling anymore or attmepting to harrass me. i wish you luck and dont share any info about you with him, he only needs to hear about the kids thats it.
2006-06-26 12:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its non of his damb business! He just wants to feel in control and is probably looking for a way to lower his support payments.
2006-06-26 17:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he does not have a right to know!! It's all part of that control and abuse. Go on with your life and tell him what he can with his!
2006-06-26 12:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by chalice apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of cause they don't have that right. And if this man is bothering you or your kids its time to take action. a abusive person only get meaner unless you stand up to them and show that person you will not take it anymore.
2006-06-26 12:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋