why are break-ups so hard. my boyfriend of 7 months decided that we should go our seperate ways but i didn't want that and now he's in Dominican Republic enjoying himself i dont know what he's thinking about or what he's up to. i miss him so much. and everyone keeps telling me that i'll move on but everday i wake-up i feel that life is just getting harder and harder and no one is there to help me. i hate this feeling and i love him so much i wish he would call or something i dunno please help wat should i do?
2006-06-26 11:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Break-ups and crushes, bare names that express what we go thru when this happens to us. You can get thru this! The trick is, allowing your heart to catch up with your mental feelings. Try this. Tonight, write him a letter. If you don't have an address, or a way to make contact, that is OK. Pour all your feelings into this letter. After this, tell yourself you are going to beat this. Mentally, keep reassuring yourself this. You have to have a plan. Now think about what you like to do. Make contact with your friends. Especially the one who makes you laugh. You need her humor to take some of the dark out of your life. Get up in the morning and put the plan in action. Shower, fix your hair, put on something that makes you feel good about you. And get with your friends and hang out. Go to the show, book stores, mall, the baseball field, what ever you want. When you set idol , your mind will start thinking about him and the hurt will follow. So you have to take full control of your thought pattern. The second you start thinking of him, think about this really cute outfit that you know you will look really hot in. Think about anything, but him. Stay as busy as possible. Run in the evening or go to the gym and never look back. This will help time to fly by. You are going to have lots of fun. And the best of it all is your heart is going to heal and when he comes home, he is going to be so sorry he treated you like this. Guys have a tendency to think we woman will just wait around fo them, but we don't anymore. By the next time you see him, you will of probably had several encounters with some of those "other fish in the sea" that people talk about. Remember, your self worth of you, is more important thanwhat others think. The better you feel about you, it will become sooo obvious to everyone around you, how great a person you are. That feeling you hate so much, will die off as soon as you step up the beat. Go Girl!!!
2006-06-28 11:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl all you need to do is start dating again. I know you probably aren't going to find anyone to amount up to him but at least someone will be there for you. Dont punish yourself reward yourself!!!!!!!!!! :~} P>S> Breakups are always hard especially if you love them but you have to move on soon or later because if you dont you will be miserable while he is living a happy life with somebody else!!!!!!!!! But please believe me girl he thinking about you just as much as you are thinking about him!!!!!!!! :-)
2006-06-26 12:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ashanta H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya didn't care so much about him dumping you because you went out for seven months. Just hold on everything will be alright and I am truely sorry for you. Be Strong.
2006-06-26 12:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋