2006-06-26 11:44:18 · 8 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you have to move on and focus on yourself.i know it will be hard but think about what he did and why you left him( i hope you left him)you dont want to show your daughter that it is ok for a husband to cheat and stay with him, no it is not ok to do that to someone you love. dont look back focus on that baby and you. you dont nned him.
2006-06-26 11:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, first of all you have to be honest with yourself. If he is cheating he doesn't love you. So, you should consider every word of LOVE from him as a lie. Second, since you have a daughter you need to be an example for her and not raise her to believe that it's ok for a man to cheat on you. I know it is hard because I am in a similar situation, only I have 3 small children and my ex was abusive and suicidal. Just try to forget the good in him, because memories can blind the reality of NOW. Good luck and I hope you find a good faithful man to show you how a woman deserves to be treated. Thanks
2006-06-26 18:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Candy69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting over a cheating husband isn't something easy to do. First you have to ask yourself, do you really want to stay in the relationship? Can you trust him? things like that. And then you have to think about what your daughter is going to have to deal w/. Do you spend all your time worrying about where he is or do you spend your time focused on your child.
If you really want to try to save the relationship, you have to put it in the past. You can't keep bringing it up time and time again. He needs to know that you are not happy and that you are hurt, but if you keep throwing it up, you will cause more problems.
I have a friend whose hubby cheated 2 times, she was able to forgive, but not forget she said, she wishes that she would have kicked him out a long time ago, whenever he is late for anything, she automatically thinks he is w/ someone else. Do you really want to live like that?
2006-06-26 18:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but staying together would defenitly be the wrong thing to do.. I stayed after being cheated on with a 2 month old baby and it was the wrong choice.. Im still trying to get out.. I CANT FORGIVE AND FORGET... but every one is differen.. what ever it is good luck.. god bless u and ur lil girl...
Ever since this happend i learnd there is no greater love than the one i have for my son.... Nothing nothing else matters any more..
Focus on your beautiful daughter and youll get through,, i bet if i would of done so i would be much better...
2006-06-26 18:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling and help... Are you still with your husband or are you seperated? Is he sorry for what he has done and wants to work it out or is he continuing to cheat? If you are together and he is sorry then by all means seek counseling and help and try to work through it and get past this with him. But if he is not wanting to change or work on the marriage then leave and divorce him and take your daughter with you. I am here if you need to talk.
http://www.marriagetoday.org
2006-06-26 20:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another husband
2006-06-26 18:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU FIND A NEW RELATIONSHIP,HOPEFULLY A BETTER ONE,YOU WILL GET OVER HIM IN A HURRY
2006-06-26 18:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to heather headleys new cd she will help
2006-06-26 18:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki Cole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋