You should just tell him NO and if he loves you and respects you he will listen. Maybe you could try bringing it up when you are alone, but in a serious mood. Not like making out or anything. If you bring it up in a non-sexual atmosphere he is liable to be more understanding. And while you are on the subject, lay some ground rules for how far you can go, when to stop, and make sure you are comfortable with the choices you make. Don't let him talk you into anything that you don't want to do. Good Luck!
2006-06-26 11:57:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Sure you can? Tell him if he love you, he can wait until its time to get married.
Save yourself for your husband. All men do is get what they can and then talk about you to the others. but if you keep yourself until marriage that would be a wonderful thing to do.
Tell Him No! If he cares about you he will respect you more and he leaves you because of the No then it was not love, it was lust.
Leanell
2006-06-26 18:59:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Just like that. I'm not ready to have sex. If he persists, dump his butt and find a good guy who respects you. If he cared about you he would not continue to pester you about sex. Good for you for waiting!! Nana
2006-06-26 18:49:13
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answered by nanawnuts 5
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Just like that. Say, "Sorry, but I'm not ready to have sex yet."
2006-06-26 18:54:12
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answered by mikah_smiles 7
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just go up to him when he come over to see you and tell him yall have to talk and let him know your not ready to have sex just yet if he love you he will understand and he will wait for you and not try to talk you into it but if not then he isnt for you
2006-06-26 18:50:25
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answered by Anonymous
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First talk to your parents that your boyfriend is pressuring you to do thing s you should not do and your risking your life cause you do not know for sure where he has been. If your smart stay a virgin and be very careful with your life
2006-06-26 18:49:27
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answered by Sunshine* 3
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Just tell him you want to hold off on sex, until you're married. He should understand. I do suggest that you consider marriage.
2006-06-26 18:54:44
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answered by Anonymous
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If it comes to the point where he needs to know if you do or not, tell him something like " if you love me and respect me, you'll wait" until whenever you are comfortable.I would defiantly wait until I was married.
2006-06-26 20:13:59
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answered by -Veggie Chick- 3
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ya say you're not ready, go home and watch some porn
2006-06-26 18:59:51
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answered by bluud 1
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I AM NOT READY TO HAVE SEX DEAR!
2006-06-26 18:48:51
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answered by noteparece? 4
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