I have been dating a guy for a few months now, and he recently mentioned "non-vaginal" intercourse. I have never tried this before, but have heard froma few friends that it can produce intense orgasms. Anyone tried it? What is the best "position"? How to start?
2006-06-26 11:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by std_4_u2 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
And no I don't mean a B.J., I mean back-door. I would like to try, but am a little aprehensive.
2006-06-26 11:49:26 · update #1
O.k., let's see...
Thanx to all that have been responding, but to those that wanna preach religion, or abstinance, or waiting until I am married, please no responses. I am not a teen (in my 30's), I am way beyond being a virgin (unless there is a pill to restore it), and already have religion (non-christian). but thanks anyways, and have a good day! :-)
2006-06-26 12:05:50 · update #2
as they say...there's alot of ways to skin a cat.......
Talk to your boyfriend more...ask exactly what he has in mind...and give it some thought....and decide if it is something you want to do. It is YOUR body...take care of it and make good decisions for IT...not for your boyfriend. Remember, its YOUR relationship, YOUR body, YOUR decision on stuff like this!
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You go girl!! How bout all those people preaching at you!!!
I still say, give it a shot. Find out exactly what he wants...give it some thought....and maybe give it a try. You don't ever have to do it again if you dont like it....and, contrary to what some people here said...it isn't gonna kill ya!!! I would think your boyfriend will understand no matter what your decision is...so its really totally up to YOU!
2006-06-26 11:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until you get married before having sex. Sex can be beautiful if it is done the way God meant it to be. This young generation is in such a hurry. Why would you want to try something (out of wed lock) that you have never try ed before just because someone else said it was OK. Be a very good leader and not a follower and you will end up with a good husband. Keep your virginity until marriage. You won't regret it.
You can gain lots of respect this way.
Sincerely
2006-06-26 18:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,now if you are in your 30's, and not a virgin, then you are experienced and you know what you want & don't want to do! If you've never had anal sex before, and you are weary about doing it that way,then you should tell your boy friend that doing that is out of the question! He most cerntainly wouldn't want that being done to him!!!! It is very painful, as well as uncomfortable!!!!!
If he truly cares for you he will respect your decision!!
Good Luck!
2006-07-05 13:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO you mean anal sex? Well, don't do it...the disease risk is much greater for people who do anal sex than the regular way. go to google.com or any web engine and type in risk of anal sex. you'll see!
2006-06-26 18:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by billslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're referring to anal...shove something up his A** and see if he still wants to do it!!
2006-06-26 18:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by rockinout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes meaning BJs
2006-06-26 18:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by jimmyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you should not be having any kind of sexual ralations with anyone but a HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can get sick and did HIV OTHER STD"s
2006-06-26 18:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋