I'm 16 & thinking about giving my boyfriend of 2 years my virginity,and I was wondering what position you'd reccomend.
2006-06-26 11:27:54 · 19 answers · asked by Diva 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO position - don't do it. That's a big step that will change your relationship completely. Sex is fun but it can also be traumatic and have huge consequences (like STDs and unwanted pregnancy) that will affect you for the rest of your life. It may seem like the boring option, but please wait a bit longer.
2006-06-26 11:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for one I think you should wait but if your going to i will give you some tips.Being on top is the best position for the first time. It gives you more control over what is going on because you are controlling the penetration of the penis due to the fact that you are going up and down on your partner. Once you have become more comfortable you can go crazy. Just remember that you can also have your boyfriend stimulate your clit as you are doing your stuff. If you want to lessen the pain before you do have sex than I would recommend masturbating. A lot of people think it isn't right or gross and what not, but really it is natural. Anyways the reason I suggest this is because than you will be more aware of what to expect and the feelings you will feel. It will also loosen you up a little so it won't hurt as bad.
And another piece of advise, please please use a condom! This coming from a person who got pregnant when I was 16. So be careful. Make sure you want to do this, and don't do it because of pressure of others. You have a long time to have sex. You have to remember sex is a perk of a relationship not a necessity.
Good luck friend
2006-06-26 19:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by misses e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first: definately missionary will be less painful and less awkward.
secondly and more importantly: don't do it. i'm 24 years old and i lost virginity when i was 22. for the past year i have been with one boy and he is the person that i loved that i had sex with, (i did with other people that i did not love.) the reason i say this is that he was in a 2.5 year relationship with a girl before me and he lived with her. he talked about their sex life all the time and it broke my heart. to know that he had done this EXACT SAME stuff with her really made me feel unspecial i guess. i know that it is obviously your first time and probably his, but think of the next people you are with. do you want them crying at night because of what you did with your old significant other? i cried all the time because of that... and i'm crying right now.
there is a reason why they say wait for marriage. it does hurt alot thinking of him with his old girlfriend. and it will hurt your future boyfriends and your husband and your current boyfriends future wife or whatever. there is just so much hurt involved. there is alot funner stuff to do.
good luck. :)
2006-06-26 18:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by laurie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex for the first time in the Missionary Position (man on top). This was probably because I was new to it and it was the way things worked out. Its user-friendly, and it allows you to get used to the feel of him inside you before you move onto other positions. At least thats what I discovered.
2006-06-26 18:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by afterbirth07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The married position. Then you will be comfortable enough to discuss with your husband how ya'll want to go about having sex for the first time with each other and there will be no awkwardness or anything like that. It will also be more comfortable emotionally.
2006-06-27 00:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by babygemini261 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if your ready or not.. you are gonna be nervous, and this wont help you... just relax and enjoy the moment. Its different for every girl, Im sure you know 1 or 2 positions... if the first one doesnt work try another... but the most important thing, relax...
2006-06-26 20:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by crazylolita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, honestly all positions are giong to hurt very painful. But if I were you I would lay down that way while you he is into you you can put a pillow over your face and you won't have to worry about doing anything besides laying down and enjoying yourself.
2006-06-26 18:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by sexymaimay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 and lost my virginity to my bf. its going to be a year for us tho.
we have sex all the time.
just let him be on top and life your legs.
i think its more comfortable that way
2006-06-26 18:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by shaanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better ******* makesure he stay wit u.. cuz uhh, when i lost it i thought i was in love (well iwas) but the guy was getting revenge on me fo cheatin on him the 1st time we went out.. and i wound up innthe mental hospital 4 attempting suicide twice
2006-06-26 18:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laying on yo back
2006-07-02 22:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋