what is wrong with the guys in this world?

Question

I am just looking for a friend to talk to over the internet not looking for a relationship or a long term commitment, just someone to talk to

Answer 1

Most guys allow their 'little friend' to do most of the thinking. Just keep looking. Tell them your only interested in talking, only in a friendship. Sooner or later you'll find one willing to add another friend to his life.
Good luck.

Answer 2

sometimes women expect things from some guys that just doesn't come naturally..with all the cosmo articles over the past few years, i think we've confused the hell out of guys..they are ,on the average,very good listeners..as with us, every guy is different..sometimes ,some guys(not all) associate,not looking for long term commitment,etc,just someone to talk to,etc as it could possibly be sexual at some point..again, so as not to offend anyone..SOME guys..on the internet,or in the real, it's all about the individual that you have some kind of spark with..be it mental,physical,whatever..you just have to take each one on their own merits..a good question might be..what's wrong with alot of people today in this world?just my opinion

Answer 3

The same sorts of people tend to move in the same circles - if the only men you find on line are ones that are only interested in sex, then maybe you're looking in the wrong place. I mean, if you're looking in chat rooms for teenagers, for example, most of the guys will be like that. Most teenage men/boys are over-sexed and emotionally immature. It's not our fault, it's just the way nature and society make us. It's just the same way most teenage girls are all chasing some fantasy ideal of the 'perfect relationship' and the 'one true love' and are also hugly emotionally immature.

If you want a more mature person to talk to, start looking around subjects that attract a more mature type of person: rooms on political and social debate, for instance, or artistic workshops.

As my dad says, you've got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.

Answer 4

So what makes you think guys aren't too? I have several female friends that I just talk with on the net. I have my love life where I am at, so I can enjoy her, wheres the fun of that on the net. Maybe your just putting your question wrong, state that you just want penpals and see what happens.

Answer 5

Nothing is wrong with the boys in the world, but all the wrongs are with yourself, that you think the boys are dying for the girls!
A very big mistake you do, boys don't like a selfish girl.

Answer 6

It seems that's guys number one thing. I am too looking for someone just for friendship over the internet but I don't seem to get the right start. Teach me more how you chat over internet. Thanks.

Answer 7

ok, so what do you want to talk about? Don't you realize that guys think of sex all the time. Is it our fault, or is it your fault that you expect us not to think of anything else. Guys and gals can't be friends. Go out and ask a male friend of yours that claim to have a female friend (not yourself). Ask him, if given the chance to sleep with his friend, would he do it, he'll say yes.

If you want to talk about something that I find intriguing, don't hesitate to email me. I like video games, sex, movies, sports and other guy stuff that you can think of. If you want to talk to me about boys, or your love life, I could care less.

Answer 8

I feel the same way.Everyone might be looking for more so try not to be upset at them.I understand its hard to miss read someone but be everyone friend not gust one.

Answer 9

Nothing is wrong with the guy if he wants the same things as you do. But if he doesn't, then it could seem like everything is wrong with him.

Answer 10

Guys in this world aren't as romantic and polite as you would want them to be. All they think about is sex. But remember if you wait PRINCE CHARMING WILL COME WALKING THROUGH THAT DOOR. All you have to do is wait and you will be fine.


Love from yo girl KEKE!