ok.. so my friends are there for me and they check my arm everyday but i still have thought of doing it sumtimes.. this is the longest ive gone.. a month.. and i plan and hope to continue counting.. but its hardd. anywho. please give me advice on how to stop.
2006-06-26 11:22:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep it up with the whole quitting thing!!!!! The only advise I can give you is don't keep your feelings inside. If your friends are true (oviously they are if they are checking your arm) then they will listen to you. Keep a diary. Scream into your pillow if you have to. If your friends are causing some of the stress then talk to someone you trust online. I would be happy to talk to you. I'm 12 and a have never abused myself ever. My life gets pretty hectic sometimes to. I have thought of suicide but always thought, why give up your life to stress???? Is it really worth hurting yourself over????? The best advice I can give you is, PRAY PRAY PRAY!!!!!!!
2006-07-06 07:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did this around your age over a girl then woke up and found out the only one in pain was myself from the cuts
it was a stupid thing to do i used to tell myself there are worse off then you and just a walk done the road proves that haven't cut myself since well unless you count shaving
lol
just be happy with you and the rest is easy
2006-07-08 10:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by staffy1331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a big deal and its hard and i believe you.. my grl has the same problem and does it frequently.. i think wat u should do is try 2 have someone u can really trust 2 stop u if u start thinking about it or something.. talk to ur parents or teachers or any kind of an adult cuz this kind of problem is difficult to over come so might need some profecional help.. not trying 2 say ur crazy but it would help you a lot trust me
2006-07-08 02:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by trunks08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u are 13 girl with STRESS!!!
why do u have stress? what make u like this? when it starts?
as u know there is a reason in everthing ...
cutting .... is a way to reduce ur stress and there are lots of way! u should find the reason coz if u stop cutting... u might start doning sth. else!
2006-07-08 06:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by admiralty_so 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how well you are doing now, you DEFINETELY need to have a therapist help you with this. Good job for reaching out and asking this difficult question. Please take everyone's advice and seek professional help. Your parents or teachers should be able to get the help for you.
2006-07-08 17:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Philosophical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you can't deal with alone. You may think that you have it under control, but when something unexpected happens you will start again. You need counseling, this is very serious and destructive behavior.
2006-07-05 21:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by riddletricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an accupuncture therapist. Seriously.
2006-07-08 02:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not think that you are alone in this matter...tell someone with finances enough to help you get some kind of help...this cutting is nothing to be trying to deal with on your own...
2006-07-07 18:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really hard to stop...im with you gurl...its been a month for me to...i got help...i went and got help....there are places you can go. yea its great that your freinds are helping you.but you need more then that. you have to start by doing the hard thing lettin your parents no..yes i no its hard...but i did. and then i got help..if you need to talk about it just e-mail me....a_hotgurl_4life@yahoo.com
2006-07-07 14:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by a_hotgurl_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... dont force youself in doing things ...
if you can't stop cutting your arm .... go to a disabled house... and see people that doesn't have any arm...
else... to releive stress... chop firewood...
joke:
if this doesn't work...
get a chainsaw and saw yourself...
2006-07-07 04:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by john_frank_evangelista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋