females keep calling my husbands phone saying alot of b*llsh*t don't know if i should believe him or them he says nothings going on and he doesn't know who they are but we know one of them about the rest we don't know every time i ask him about them he doesnt know why they are calling.
2006-06-26 11:22:00 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki Cole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her name and then ask her to leave a short message. Check the expression on your hubbys face when you deliver the message.
2006-06-26 11:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all trust him. Let's give him the benefit of doubt. You love him right? What if another female is calling him somtimes women get the number and like to play mind games. I'm not saying be nieve. Talk to your husband and let him know how you feel and that you don't want to stir up distrust. See if he'ss compromise and get the number changed if it's becoming a serious problem in your marriage. But don't throw your marriage into a shocker over phone call rushing to judgement. Men have the tendacy sometimes to see if they still got it! Doesn't mean that they don't love you or are having an affair. You know your husband better then anyone else. Keep the door to communication open. Never build your acusations on assumptions. Build it based on facts. Build your marriage based on love, trust, and committment. Put God first in your lives and everything else will fall in place.
Remember- There is no perfect marriage. Keep talking to him!
A family that prays together stays togther!
2006-06-26 11:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by JUANITA@DC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, they all can't be wrong numbers. I'm sure he knows who they are, because if he didn't, then I'm sure he would have had that number blocked by now. If he isn't cheating, then I'm sure there's a logical explanation for him giving the girls his number.....maybe wanting to cheat. I would say guard your heart, and get prepared for the worst. If you have extra money, hire you a private detective to take pics and give you evidence of his misdeeds, if he goes on these "encounters". If it turns up to be true, then hire you an attorney that specializes in divorce, and take your hubby to the bank. Best of luck to you...............
2006-06-26 12:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should answer the phone and calmly ask them "how do you know _____? then ask if they know he's married. about your husband not knowing who THEY are. i can smell the bull from here. who gave them that number? why do they think they can call whenever they want? does your hubby go out often? time to get down to the dirty questions - whats really going on !!?? don't be afraid to ask, you were givin' the right to ask when he put the ring on your finger !! you go girl-- good luck.
2006-06-26 11:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U and your husband confront the females together. watch his reaction, if he looks mad that somone is trying to destory his marriage u know he is telling the truth or if he looks upset that he has be fond out then u know who is telling the truth.just rember thier are females out there that do lie to break up famlies. after all this is done change and block your number
2006-06-26 12:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea right!!1 How in the heck did they get his number? He knows good and well who they are. Tell him that you want the truth and nothing but the truth right now. Then leave his as.s when he gives you the answer that you don't want to hear.
2006-06-26 19:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by mothers finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't cheated already then he is thinking about it. No woman in her right mind would put up with what you are. You need to confront him and don't let him just make up excuses. Good Luck.
2006-06-26 11:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shelli T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct. Why would girls be calling his phone? How would he feel and what would he think if men were calling your phone? There are many kinds of cheating.
2006-06-26 11:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by jolees56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when girls we calling my husband I got up at night and dialed all numbers that were not stored plus I checked out our Ceil phone bill to see what number is being dialed or calling in and I checked how long the phone call was and I called the numbers and told them I am his wife and to please stop calling my husband and then approach him.
2006-06-26 11:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shuld really sit down and comfront him and if he appears nervous or anything then that shuld set off a red flag that you husband is cheating even though you mite not want to believe it maybe its time to move on to sum 1 else or bug his fone
2006-06-26 11:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by tutuskwad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋