I have been seeing this guy but we are not in a "relationship"... why won't he just let me be. He knows that I want to be in a relationship. He continues to be intimate with me.., but constantly says that he does not want to be in a relationship.
2006-06-26 11:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You played yourself -- Ice Tea
2006-06-26 11:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it's your fault here. He knows you want to be in a relationship, but he's not giving you what YOU want. Meanwhile, he gets exactly what he wants...sex with no strings attached. And if he told you this point blank, you're just punishing yourself. Stand up for yourself and stop taking this kind of crap. You don't have to settle for some guy who's not willing to give you his all. There are plenty of decent guys looking to be in a committed relationship. I suggest you end this sham of a relationship and find a guy who wants the same things you do.
2006-06-26 18:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used. If you're okay with no-strings-attached sex then there isn't any problem, but it definitely seems like you want a relationship, and he's not going to give it to you. If you DO want a relationship, then stop sleeping with him and look for someone who's interested in it.
Also, make damn sure that you use protection if you continue to sleep with him. He's probably sleeping with women besides you, and you don't want to end up with any STDs.
2006-06-26 18:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but he is just using you . All he's in it for is just the fun & games- all getting & no giving.You deserve better than this- it is right for you to want a relationship. Find someone who will love you & treat you special. Sounds like this isn't the one for you - look somewhere else... good luck
2006-06-26 18:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he want to be intimate he wants a relationship. If he doesn't want a relationship, tell him no to intimacy.
Very simple answer. OK?
2006-06-26 18:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by MARK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u keep letting him f*** u and he see he can get it without being in a relationship with u nothing to be said he just say no i dont want a girl right now and u just sit and look stupid then when he wants sex u give it up i wouldnt leave u alone either if i could get it without an arguement no hassle no fuss please girl wise up
2006-06-26 18:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does this because you are allowing him to.He won't ever buy the cow when the milk is free.If you want a relationship and he doesn't then he isnt the one to be giving your goodies to.Its about what you want for you,not what he wants.
2006-06-26 18:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think so...im a guy and the truth is if i didnt commit
to a chick i wouldnt expect none .....
2006-06-26 18:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by Robby W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off from sex and he won't hang around long, or he will bug you to death for sex. Either way, it is a change up for you.
2006-06-26 18:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by sbsuperman77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you stuck on stupid???
You let him f*ck you, he's there for the sex, you don't charge him as much as a prostitute does, hell g/f you are giving it away and you wonder why he's still around...give your head a shake
2006-06-26 18:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋