i am 14 and 4 moths pregnant?

Question

my mom and dad dont know because i ware big close and i and not that big yet. what should i do?

Answer 1

Tell your parents as soon as possible...do you want to keep the baby, give it up for adoption, terminate your pregnancy?
They will want to know who the father is.
You should have been spending more time learning to read and write...how did you get through grade school being illiterate?

Answer 2

I would immediately get to a Doctor to confirm the pregnancy and how far along. Sounds like you've done that and seek counseling if you are afraid to tell your parents. Planned Parenthood has a host of people that can help you. You need to make sure that you keep your prenatal appointments! This is so important!!!!!!!!!!!! You want to eat properly PLEASE!
I work at a high school and I cannot tell you how many girls are walking down the hall and literally just fall out because they don't eat!!!! You may feel sick at first...have saltine crackers and ginger ale or seven up. You need to tell your parents because they will be so-oo-o hurt if the only way that they find out is just about the time that you deliver. Write more if you have more questions...happy to help as an Abstinence Educator. Take care of yourself and Baby! Be Blessed! You can still finish school and do everything that you want to do!

Answer 3

This is a very serious situation and you need a lot of support right now. What do you want to about the pregnancy? If you plan to keep the pregnancy and have the baby you need to start prenatal care, so your parents need to know. If you want an abortion you will need your parents consent (in most states). Do not wait very long to do this if you want an abortion. As you can see, either way you will have to tell them: and the sooner the better. Is there a trusted adult other than one of your parents that you feel you can talk to. Perhaps she / he can help you to tell your parents.
I also suggest that you talk with a Planned Parenthood counsellor, immediately. Planned Parenthood is listed in the Yellow Pages under "Birth Control Clinics". Beware of "Crisis Pregnancy" centres. The information that they give is not accurate or truthful.
Please get help immediately. I cannot stress this enough. I am worried about you. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Talk to an adult close to you. Maybe a sister, aunt even a teacher. Have that person go with you to talk with your Mom. Expect her to be upset. Give her time to absorb the news. You have had 3 months. After that ask her to help you make some plans for your future. Try calling 211 in your area. They can give you a list of services that are available in your area. Please consider adoption. You are too young to raise this baby. Most cases of neglect and child abuse happen to children of young mothers. You may not do it, but a friend or boy friend. God Bless.

Answer 5

1) Tell your parents
2) Start adoption proceedings so a couple can care for you baby...there are alot of people out there who CAN"T have kids and will provide a wonderful life for your baby...ALOT better life than you will be able to provide.
3) Get back to school and learn to spell
4) graduate HS and maybe go to college
5) Get a good job, get married, have wonderful kids, and provide a great life for them...which, after going to college you will be able to do.

You don't have to lose contact with your baby either. Talk to the attorney in the adoption proceeding....you can ask to meet the child at some age like 20 or something.....its pretty cool and you should think about it.

Answer 6

don't worry everything will be alright.see i am 24 years old and got married also but still i am not pregnant.so the pregnancy is the gods gift.now the gift is with u.i think u became matured so u do one thing go and talk with the person who is the father of the baby ask him marry.no problem be-cos the age is not a matter and after ur delivery u can live with ur family with full of happiness then also u can continue ur studies if u wish.plz try to do immediately but dont try to abort the child.ok this is my request consider me as ur sister.bye god helps u.

Answer 7

1)What you gotta do is move to your grandparents house. and live with them. Since your fourteen years old you can probbably get a job at like a restaruant like keys cafe. Then can go to a public school.
2) When you get baby, give it to grand parents by doing the door trick where you ring the bell and run away. They'll think that someone left it there and they will never know that the babies yours.
3)have the baby adopted

Answer 8

James Darwin is probably freaking out that only dumb people that can't spell or know any common sense are reproducing.

ahhh evolution at work. I, too, am terrified at the image of the human race in a couple of eons.

{{{shudder}}}}


oh and good luck with raising a baby from the age of 14. You will probably be a grandmother at the age of 29.

Answer 9

You shouldn't be having sexual relations at 14. However, since you did and you are now pregnant, tell your parents. No one can tell you what to do as far as the baby goes. Your 14, how will it feel to say, hmmm, on the nite of prom, I need to be home at 10:00 P.M., my baby sitter needs to be home by 10:30.

Answer 10

Honey, I'm very sorry that your in this situation. I'm 14 too, and Girl, you have no idea what is coming. You have to tell your parents. They can help you through this. They WILL help you through this. Do not try to handle it yourself, it won't work. Tell them, and pray that you and your baby will be healthy. Just remember that everything happens for a reason. And it will be ok.

Best Wishes