me and my boyfriend had sex but he pulled out before he came is ther a posibltiy i could get pregant?

Question

he didnt feel like he was going to bust .. he bust b4 he went inside of me and he did clean himself off .. when he pulled out he said he didnt bust ..yes! i believe him cuz wudnt i feel him bust to? but when he pulled out i think i ejaculaed and not him because there was white stuff on me not allot tho ..when he ws pulling out i felt myself ejaculating....although is there any chance i could of gotten pregant ?

Answer 1

of course you could have gotten pregnant, there is also sperm in the pre-ejaculation. The pull out method doesnt work. If you dont want to get pregnant try using BC pills or condoms!!

Answer 2

yes because sperm are microorganisms that travel up the vaginal canal. Most people don't get pregnant that way, take a pregnancy test in 2 weeks, and again if you miss your period, best to use a condom from now on though. you can get free condoms at your local health department regardless of your age race or gender,they will give them to you in a little brown paper bag usually very discreet. Just because a guy sais he didn't ejaculate in side you doesnt mean he wasn't releasing sperm into your vaginal canal. Sometimes the white residue you see after sex is lochia , a secretion from your vagina. It's perfectly normal. It shouldn't look like cottage cheese though as that would indicate a yest infection. You should go get a check up from a gynecologist , you can one free from a health department as well, no questions asked, it's completely confidential. By the way it's sounding like you need to go there anyway and pick up some information about being sexually active from a nurse . Or ask to talk to one privately they will be very straight forward and always confidential.

Answer 3

If you are in days 10 through 16 of a 28 day cycle there is always a huge chance if you don't use a condom. My sister is a nurse and my friend is aregistered nurse and they've told me, while I wasn't useing protection, that "pre-***" the clear stuff, can have just as much sperm in it as the ejaculated stuff. I thought they were just talking until I finally figured out the real reason i wasn't getting prego. I've got PCOS, this keeps me from ovulating so i have to take meds to make me do so. But for a healthy girl, you can very easily get pregnant. My niece was concieved just in that manner. The Pull out move.

Answer 4

yup. there is a chance... they guys dont need to bust inside of u... there is sperm that comes out a little bit not much that anyone really notices and that can get u pregnant also... how long ago was this?? if its been more than 2 weeks get a hpt and see if u are .. i wish u best of luck

Answer 5

Yes!! I have three children and when I got pregnant with our first one he pulled out every time. There is such thing as pre-comb. And even if he said he pulled out he could have released a little without knowing befor he was out. Just use a condom.

Answer 6

Don't make the same mistake I did....
Dear La’Vitta,

My Precious baby… I miss you so much. I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am. I regret what I did. I wish I could have died on that table when you did. I thought school and my dreams were more important and that you and I would have a bad life if you were born. Now I realize that you my child, my baby would be more important than any of that. Your birth date is coming up. No matter if I have another baby or not you were my first. You always will be. You are my special baby. I’m so sorry I was supposed to protect you. I was your mom. Ever since they sucked your poor little helpless body out of me I have felt so empty. Nobody knows pain and emptiness like I do. They said you couldn’t feel it but I know you could. I read it in a book that you already had developed your nerve endings. I hope I die as painfully as you. Even more so. I would give anything to take that day back. To have just run out of that room. Out of that murdering house of innocent souls. I wish I could have felt you kick. I wish I could hold you. I would have been the luckiest woman in the world to hold you in my arms. No one told me no Vitta! Everyone told me to do it. Why did I listen to them? I hate Jaime! I hate my mom! And most of all I hate your dad for not being a good person cause if I would have got pregnant by a good man I would have kept you. I was just so scared you wouldn’t have a daddy. Everyone told me if I had you, we wouldn’t have a good life. But Vitta, I would have done everything in my power to make you the happiest little girl in the world. That would have been the best moment in my life, to see you being born. I’d have so many pictures of you I’d have to rent an extra room. I wouldn’t care if a man didn’t want me cause I had you. **** him! I would have worked at Wendy’s all my life if I had to. I couldn’t use the option of adoption cause I just wouldn’t be able to give you away once I seen you or even just you kicking in my belly. How selfish of me. Now here I am still having sex! I have been so destructive to my self and my body since you’ve been gone. Multiple partners, doing porn, lying, cheating, … it’s like I am trying to make myself hurt. Life isn’t worth living without you. When I do have a baby… I will never love that baby like I love you. Any real love I had died when you died. Any ounce of dignity got sucked right out of me along with you. I am so fucked up now. I want to go to that clinic and tell all those girls, don’t do it! Don’t make the same mistake I did! But that won’t bring you back. None of those girls will be affected the way I am cause as I said nobody loves their dead baby more than I do. This is so painful to write but I finally had to do it! I will bury this letter just as you should have been with respect! I was a month pregnant when I found out about you. Took me two months to make a decision. It actually wasn’t completely made up; I just had to do it before the deadline. If I had a little more time to think I wouldn’t have done this. I cried every day you were inside me trying to figure out what to do.
I want to slit my throat. I would imagine my blood is my pain. As the pain seeps out of my body I would slip away to a place of darkness… leaving behind the reality of the horrible thing I did. I can’t live without you anymore baby.

Love,
Mommy

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Answer 7

Yes, you could have gotten pregnant. Just because you didn't feel him ejaculate inside you doesn't mean that he didn't. You need to learn to be a little more careful and not use the pullout method anymore.

Answer 8

Yes, because there is sperm in his lubricant before he ejaculates.
I was in your situation a few years ago and my resulting opinion is that the only time to have a sexual relationship is when a child (the natural and good outcome) would be welcomed and cared for, meaning having a father who can provide and is in a committed relationship under the law and under God. WE NEED HIGHER STANDARDS FOR OUR MEN! VALUE YOURSELF! Just telling you because I love you :)

Answer 9

Yes you can get pregnant by using the pull out method. I am 3 months pregnant right now...my husband "pulled out"... ha trust me...it doesn't work

Answer 10

Yes you could be pregnant, thats how i got pregnant, the withdrawl method never works. Get a pregnancy test and next time use protection!