i hate the way i look, i wish i could be skinnier,be alot prettier,i hate myself this way and i dont know what to do, what should i do?i hate the way i dress too,i wear alot of black and dark makeup, does that make me gothic?
2006-06-26 10:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Number one, you need to sit down and make a list of what you DO like about yourself from head to toe. Make sure to include your personality traits and talents. While our physical appearances do cause others to judge us unfairly, they are not the total package of you are, what you are capable of, or your worth as a person. Be sure to include a list of your friends and list qualities about yourself that show what matter to YOU. Get to know yourself, don't compare yourself to another person or what society deems as 'normal'-what is normal anyway? If you like wearing that type of makeup and it doesn't bother you, then just consider, for example, if you were going to a job interview, would it add to your appearance or detract from it? If there is something you don't like about yourself, change it! That's part of the beauty of being human-we can change anytime we want. But make that list. Be honest with yourself. You will find traits and qualities you like and I'll just bet you are an attractive person anyway and someone or something made you feel differently. Find your way and be true to yourself.
2006-06-26 10:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not depressed, you have nothing to worry about. I have a few Gothic friends (well they wear lots of black with purple lip stick ) and they are so gorgeous because they're personalities rock! They are funny and goofy and they care about people. It's not all about looks sweety. But if you really don't like the way you look, then try other things. Get a new hairdo and exercise and be confident. : )
2006-06-26 17:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, everybody feels like that at some point in their life. No one can make you happy, you have to do it yourself. You should go shopping and get some fresh, new style clothes. Something that makes you feel better. Dye your hair something completely different. You should start walking everyday, fresh air will do you good, plus it will give you more energy. All this stuff might help you look at yourself different. Is important to know it will take time to change your looks and be patient and work hard. You will see with time you will start liking yourself more.
2006-06-26 17:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly,TX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to many ppl u wearing lots of black would make u gothic but who cares wut others think,thats 1st of all. 2nd of all stop hating the way u look. i kno its easier said then done but still hating urself won't make u "prettier" or happier. and i wish i could b skinnier too. Ask some of ur friends or other ppl wuts their secret to being thin and healthy. and as for being prettier...evry single woman on this planet has something that a another woman would "kill to have". whether it be the nice legs,the big butt like Beyonce, and all that other stuff. u might b thinkin ur "unattractive" but to some1 you are an inspiration, some1 they wish they could look like, and some1 they would like to get to kno. like nike says just do it....just luv u for u...thats all. good luck!!
2006-06-26 17:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by punkano09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your look, your body and your being are some gifts given to you by God which could be easily taken away from you by Him. I'm sure you don't want that to happen. love yourself and appreciate every part of you. There are so many people out there that wish to have what you do have now. Be happy with what you got and try to show off all the beauty in you and that starts when you start being grateful with what you got.
2006-06-26 17:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by honeybun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate the way you dress then stop dressing that way, plain and simple. Dont were so much make up, eat healthier food. If your miserable stop wallowing in your misery and do something about it!
2006-06-26 17:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ann W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry you feel that way about yourself .. i think a lot of ppl wish they were skinnier, me being one of them. but then i say w/e there are still guys who check me out .. so then i embrace how i look and if you hate the way you dress then dress differently.
2006-06-26 17:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason why you think u are ugly and so and so is bcoz thats how u perceive yourself... obsolete as i may seem,let me tell you that the true beauty of a person comes out when you're confident to tell the world how beautiful you are...u may not be thin as the victoria secret's model,but you yourself is a btter person..just believe in yourslef and be thankful you have all the complete senses to flaunt it....
2006-06-26 17:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by seanny c. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that doesn`t make you gothic i`m like that to maybe you should test out other styles, clothes,hairstyles and make-up every one has that style they look best in!! be confeident!!!! you`ll find one!!
2006-06-26 17:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sound like you have low self esteem. You may even be depressed. Maybe you should seek counseling.
2006-06-26 17:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by lj1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋