She has liked him for about as long as me but she is like obessive about him. I am friends with him and he's my buddy. I do like him a little more than a friend. My friend knows but she still is crazy over him while I just play it cool around him and just hang out. We do flirt kind of.
2006-06-26 10:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley luvz you! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i came very close to losing my best friend over a guy.. in pretty well the same situation.. she liked him.. a lot i thought of him just as a friend.. but it turned out he liked me not her.. i went for it (as he was like the first guy who ever admitted to me that he liked me)
so i made a big mistake.. and she was so pissed at me and luckily after awhile she was able to fogive me..
keep in mind though i've known her since i was like 11.. this happened when we were 19 (i'm 26 now)
we haven't been as close since.. she may have forgiven me.. but i really doubt she's forgotten
plus i know i wasn't the best friend i should have been..
and i feel guilty about it nearly every time we hang out
2006-06-26 10:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, If your best friend is obsessive - that could drive him away from her. If you really want him you need to try & win him over - give it your best shot, and then let him decide- who he wants the most. But you might lose your best friend, so you have to decide what is more important? Your other choice is just keep on what you're doing & let chance (or luck) decide for you... Good "luck"...
2006-06-26 17:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Him And See What He Says
2006-06-26 17:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by YOLANDA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chics before d.icks. If this guy is going to come between you and your friend if one of you dates him, why bother?
2006-06-26 17:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone guys are a dime a dozen.I could almost guarantee you he is not worth it.
2006-06-26 17:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Addie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you need to let this guy go or decide that he's off limits for both of you that all you will do is be friends
2006-06-26 17:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by sweeeet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up a bit first.
2006-06-26 17:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by ShortStuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she is really your friend, she'll understand that you guys like each other
2006-06-26 17:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by littleshelly19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to duke it out, fight over him, a good cat fight usually settles things.
2006-06-26 17:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to you heart.... when he's calling for you....
2006-06-26 17:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋