when i was in elementary school i was straight but now im in highschool and im bisexual, and im woried that i will turn full blown gay. i dont want to be gay but something about the same sex just turns me on. can any one help me??!?!!
2006-06-26 10:25:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well it is common to experiment but.. if you really don't want to be full blown gay then you won't let yourself be. It is a choice. If the same sex turns you on tho.. then you have a tendency to be gay. Many will argue that your born that way some say it is a choice. I knew a guy who was gay and became straight but then again he found religion. He wanted kids. So your choice which you want. You do know both can satisfy you so the decision is up to you. Perhaps you just like to much sex and want any and all from any who.. your hormones are raging. Some of us tho are born with more or less testerone and estrogen. Ask yourself what it is you like write it down about girls /guys.. which makes you more fulfilled I'm not just talking about physical.. give it time ..
2006-06-26 10:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why should you be scared if you do turn full-blown gay? are you scared because you think that people will bully and harass you? let me tell you something, you shouldnt be ashamed and hideaway who you really are. you are denying who you are. and the more you deny, the more effect its going to have on you. i have lots of gay male and lesbian female friends. sure its very difficult to handle, but gradually it will die down. people will bully you, but you can make a good role model, maybe there are other guys at your highschool who might also be confused about their sexuality and if they see you standing up for yourself, they will slowly come out of their shell and soon there might even be more people admitting it, then people will soon respect that you are gay. thats what happened to my friends at my school. thats how there's respect in liking the same sex. don't be scared. don't deny yourself either.
2006-06-27 03:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by shrimpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is ok...I dont believe anyone makes a choice to be gay, they are born that way, and if you are gay, find a support group where you can be yourself. Don't surpress it, you deserve to be happy just like every other human. If you are too scared to tell your parents, that is ok, but please find an adult that you can trust & will allow you to be YOU. You are here for a reason!!!
2006-06-26 17:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by EssGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the time in u'r life to play sports and games and go to the movies. go on a camping trip, bike riging, go to the beach.
AKA do things that will keep u'r mind off sex
2006-06-26 17:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by holygrail Kniggit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be attracted to either sex. There is no way to change what you are attracted to; so just relax and follow what you feel.
2006-06-26 17:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by alannafaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about giving yourself a few more years before you decide who you are.....it's not like a tree gradually turn the leafs yellow in autumn and bald in winter....it does not happen that way....
2006-06-26 18:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still trying to find your sexual orientation. If you should get involved in sexual activity, be smart and be protected.
2006-06-26 17:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be ashamed if i was gay and you shouldn't be either by the way i'm not gay
2006-06-26 17:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by journey014644 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have some prayers to God and tell him you want to have signs whether you're gay or not.
2006-06-26 17:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♠šCep†ΩЯque♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be whatever you want to be. Enjoy life, you only get to live only once.
2006-06-26 17:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by lelekid4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋