at home its not been so well i try so hard to please every one but it never seems like its getting anybetter the family is in counsiling but it never seems to help any thing i feel like im walking on egg shells around the house and im always afraid to make the wrong move i feel like i shouldnt be trying anymore because even if i try hard to improve nothing really seems to get better it allways just goes back downhill....... if anyone ever been in a situation like this i could really use some advise in what to do thanx.......
2006-06-26 10:21:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I used to feel that way. You have to realize that you cant please everybody and you have to start thinking more of yourself. YOu cant fix everything and trying is just going to make you unhappier. Try to focus on the good in your life Sometimes things just naturally work themselves out without all the stress of forcing it. Good luck.
2006-06-26 10:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I've heard those exact same words...and it didn't matter what the rest of the family tried my wife, their mom fell deeper into depression, she eventually was put on medication that I felt brought portions of her back, but presented other obstacles...which meant she needed to switch to a drug that would better control her emotions, she soon tuned the family out and looked for answers in the arms of another man...that only ended one misery and began another...seek help..deal with your issues with a professional and allow your family to be part of the healing process..good luck.
2006-06-26 17:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your counselor say are the key issues? Is there a way one of them can be focused on by the family and taken care of. Then proceed to the next so that the task does not seem so formidable? - - Good luck!
2006-06-26 17:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop trying in pleasing other people. God has a purpose for you and is not to please people. You should let your problems and concerns in god hands. Stop trying to control something you have no control over. Leave it up to god to help you. Take sometime to yourself. Take a trip with a close friend or go to the movies by yourself and don't worry about things you can't change. Life is to short and precious for you to live it in worries and concerns. Take it one day at a time and live it as it was your last. Instead of worring on what you could do to help, let it go and leave it in gods hands. Life is to short.
2006-06-26 17:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar issue after a whiel i stopped trying to make sur eim pleasing evryone else and i do my own thgin even though i dont always do teh right things its my mistake to make and if i keep on living for eveyone else ima look back and realize i had kno self i dentity i keeep teh syaing live eahc dya liek its my last an di dont wnat to live my last days arguing being cautious of who i upset its time to hink about yourslef and find out what it is taht you wnat to do if u need to talkto me you can emauil me naytime at lilmizzd2002@yahoo.com
2006-06-26 17:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by lilmizzd2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you failed to mention what your status is in the family? Mother? Father? Sister? Brother? Siblings? Really need some more information.
2006-06-26 17:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like vacation-time...for YOU. Take a week, and get out of the house. go stay with family, friends, or go grab a hotel or something somewhere nice, and get out of there. You deserve a break.
2006-06-26 17:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get that there is problems at home but you didnt say what they are so how can I tell you what you should do.
2006-06-26 17:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by kittycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋