What should i do?

Question

What should i do if my friend is annoying the heck out of me but i don't want to quit being her friend?

Answer 1

tell your friend and maybe she'll lay off

Answer 2

Normal and I do have this kind of friend and it is not easy to be around but since you want to keep her friendship then you have to do something about it.I urge you find a quiet moment and be with her alone.Then you tell her how much you love her as a friend and you want a lasting friendship but you need her stop her annoying behavior and be polite when you talk to her.She may have too much fun and I see a communication broke down(you and her) in which she thinks you like it and after you talk to her she may changes her mind.Give yourself a try and be good for the outcome.I wish you well.

Answer 3

Its sounds like you might just need a little break from your friend. Just take a chill for a minute, maybe try not to talk to her as much for a couple days (blame it on you, say your just in a bad mood or whatever) then eventually whatever shes doing to bug you so much will cool off by then or at least it'll give you some time.

Answer 4

Honestly the only thing that's the right thing to do is sit her down and talk to her. You cant get anywhere when you hold your feelings towards someone inside. Let her know exactly how you feel. And if she listens and take into consideration what your saying then she's a good friends, if not then you know she wasn't a true friend to begin with...good luck hun..

Answer 5

Tell her in a nice conversation what are the things that annoy you, and go hang out by yourself for a while. Maybe you also annoy her without you knowing.

Answer 6

great question!!! Well, "annoyance" is usually a cry for attention. The fact is that she's probably picking up a vibe from you that you are distancing yourself a bit. It's a catch 22.

Honestly, the best thing is to try something one on one and try to do something consistently one on one. For example, once a week, go get coffee with her and just let her chat away (she interprets this as one on one attention). If you begin to do something like that which is consistent, she will learn that once a week, she gets your undevided attention and she'll feel more secure about backing off.

Answer 7

i understand how you feel because i'm going through the same thing....at first, i was annoyed at this person a little bit, and then it became extreme....i felt i could not tell her how i felt without hurting her so i decided to avoid her for a lil bit....pretending i was sleepy or busy when she came over so i locked myself in my room hardly ever coming out....unfortunately for me, she's a friend of the family so she's invited herself over a lot....thing is, we can't choose who want to be annoyed with or don't want to be.....being annoyed just comes to you....i, like you, didn't want to hurt her...i tried talking to my mom and sister about it, but they didn't help at all....what i would say is just avoid her for a little bit...when your friend calls, just tell her that you're busy or tired....just so until your annoyance calms down...i think that would have helped me a lot, if i didn't have to see her so much....but she comes over like 2x a week, so she's around a lot, not giving me much time to calm my annoyance down...i hope this helps....

Answer 8

Talk things over with her. It's sensible. But, don't make it seem like you don't want to be her friend. Also, realize that all friends can be annoying.

Answer 9

Take a little break from her. Hang out with some other friends for awhile.

Answer 10

talk to your friend. let them know what they are doing that annoys you. they may not realize what they are doing. you sound like you want to save the friendship. communication is the key.

Answer 11

just step back for a few days...if she calls you, say you are busy. some people get annoying after too much time with them