please help with this. i don't know what 2 do. ???

Question

What should i do if someone touches my butt or something like that?

what if i am shy and it is hard for me 2 turn around and tell that person?

Answer 1

well if u like this person then giggle and smile but if u dont or u think its wrong turn around and slap them

Answer 2

First of all, nobody has the right to touch you anyway shape or form without your permission. If you're shy, you need to try to get up the courage to say what's on your mind and how you feel about inappropriate touching. If you are a child, you need to tell your parent or a trusted adult what is going on. If you're an adult, you probably need to tell someone you trust how you feel and maybe they can be with you when you approach the offender. Otherwise, the person who is offending you will think that you enjoy the attention. I know that's an awful way to put it, but it's how those fiends thinks.

Answer 3

If this is going on at your school you first need to tell a counselor or a principal! And next you definately need to tell your parents! This is Sexual Harassment if you do not want to be touched in that way ! If your parents say that they have a problem with it then let them take it from there and be there to tell your story about it! It is nothing to be ashamed of and i'm sure people will understand you and your case! So don't be afraid to tell someone before anything else happens because if this keeps on happening repededly you could be sorry if you didn't say something earlier!

Answer 4

I was very shy in high school...I have learned over the years that I had a low self-esteem. That is a hard position to be in your teen years. I was often too nice and even nice to people that didn't deserve even a smile.

I wasn't quite ready for the attention I got when I was younger and a lot of it was sexual, later I realized all the attention was interpreted for me as negative attention...and I hated it. Soon I was closing myself off from all forms of attention...even positive.
I didn't like being look at or anything like that...

You don't have to always be polite and you must create boundaries for others...if someone disrespects you or invades your personal space...TELL THEM, take it very seriously.

The more you let some one take advantage of you, they will keep pushing and pushing. You need to stand up for yourself...it will pay off in the long run, I promise.

I am 26 and I still tend to be too polite when asshole men are hitting on me and men try to take advantage of me or a situation (like if I am picking up something or whatever)...stop it now and learn to say "I don't like that" or "stop this right now".

Answer 5

No one should ever touch your butt or any other part of your body.
I would face this person and say , "I don't want to be touched, do not do it again." IF he/she/whoever does it again, go as fast as you can to someone in authority and report them.

NO ONE HAS A RIGHT TO EVEN TOUCH YOUR ARM WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION. YOUR BODY BELONGS TO YOU AND NO ONE ELSE.

Kids are cruel. If this is a boy and he gets away with it, he goes to all of his friends and reports to them to make him look good with, "hey guys, I grabbed Susie's butt and she liked it. Go try it, she'll let you too!" That's how bad rumors get started too.

If all this fails, a smack in the face might help... Share this with your mom or dad. Good Luck!!

Answer 6

Well it is accordind where you are and why they done it..
If it was at work (file harrashment charges on him.) The business can get in deep trouble also if they don't stop it..

If it is getting to the point of sexual harrassment then you need to go to the right attorities and press charges. and it is according what the something like that is...

At this day and time no one has the right to lay a hand on you..

If it was me I would probably smack the hell out of their face and then when someone tried to say that I done the wrong thing I would tell them that they smacked my butt so I smack theirs.

Answer 7

First of all, is this happening in the workplace or at school? If it was a one time thing....yeah, it sucks, but blow it off. If it happens again, tell that person, plain and simple not to touch you ever again and if it happens again you'll file for sexual harrassment (either with your job or seek guidance counselor...which ever case it may be). You do not have to put up with this....if this person is constantly doing this to you and you are uncomfortable with it, do something about it! This is considered sexual harrassment.

Answer 8

so at this point if i walk around and some one touches my butt i rather say nothin coz i afraid if that person react so hard or gimme a slap or some thing and besides i feel shy to start shoutin or screamin ..i dont say ne thing just laughin n ignore that :D

Answer 9

Hmmm. in my opinion, you have 2 options:
1-turn around and let them know that you did not appreciate that
2-or let it go. Butts are being grabbed EVERYDAY!!! it is not the end of the world

Answer 10

Walk away and go by someone you know. Tell someone you feel you can trust to help you deal with this problem. You should not be touched anywhere by anyone unless you feel okay about it

Answer 11

Personally,if the touching is unwanted it is sexual harassment.If it is on the job it is uncalled for.If it is occuring at your place of employment with a co-worker do not feel ashmed about telling him/her to back off & step out of your space & face. If they cease to heed your warning then take it up with a supervisor or boss. Good Luck!!!