Me and my husband was walking down South beach and my son's dad and his wife were across the street. Then that night we ran into them at a club and we were in the middle of the dance club and they decided to move into the middle of the dance floor also. Very wierd. What do you guys think? Was he trying to get me jelous or what? I fought his wife before and used to cry and fight with my ex. I'm happily married now and have moved on with my life. I also caught them staring at me and my husband at the club. I use to fight with my ex about leaving me for her and she used to laugh at me while I was struggling homeless with my son.
2006-06-26 09:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by lifeislove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
trust me I let go 8 years ago. I just dont want to be stalked
2006-06-26 10:01:54 · update #1
I definatly think they are jealous, especially him, good for you that you have moved on! I had this happen to me with my ex, but at a funeral of all the places! He was sitting right in front of me and my husband told me that he stared at me the whole time! LOSER. I didn't make eye contact, he doesn't even derserve it!! What a B-tch for laughing at you when you were going thru hard times - I think that she is very immature and is also probably feeling a bit nervous that your ex was eyeing you up!! All the best to ya!
2006-06-26 09:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by lil_miz_korey 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
first tell your son not to give info to his dad that is about u and your hubby only talk about the 2 of them that's all your ex needs to be concerned with next u should watch your back u never know what they can b up to your ex should be more focused on his new wife rather than u and she should tell him that if it happens again write down everything places dates etc because 2 times is not a coincidence
2006-06-26 16:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you to even be CONCERNED is giving him satisfaction. If you and your new husband are happy, that cat shouldn't even be in the picture. Let him go girl, it takes two. And how would your new husband feel if he knew you let this concern you? Bump him and his wife, enjoy your NEW life with someone who loves you and let him do his thing.. He's a loser if he has nothing better to do than to make your life miserable, he had his chance now kick his sorry butt to the curb. If it doesn't concern the kids, he has nothing to do with what you do with your old man... Good luck :O)
2006-06-26 16:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by TeeTee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to keep a record of what he is doing. next time you go somewhere tell your son you are going somewhere else, so when he tells your ex he will show up at the wrong place, also make sure no one is following you, he might be following you to see where yo ugo. if he is stalking you it is against the law, get a restraining order against him. yes he is trying to make you jealous and doesnt want to se you happy, when you see him ignore him and dont take his calls, ignore him and he will soon see you have interest in him anymore. he might go away, good luck.
2006-06-26 16:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they got some kind of a twisted kick from watching your pain before, and were looking for a chance to see if they would get to enjoy the show again. just ignore them, and be happy.
2006-06-26 16:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break your head over this. If you are happily married dont give any concern to it. He is probably realizing he did wrong for leaving you.
2006-06-26 16:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by LostMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they have mental problems and no dignity, thank god you move on. I will say don't pay attention and be happy , this people have nothing but envy. If you're in peace with yourself, nothing else matters.
2006-06-26 18:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by None 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have sent them a drink on me.
2006-06-26 16:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by okeydokeycroaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he still must love you and good job on not waiting on his and getting your life together
2006-06-26 16:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are jealous, dont pay them any attention.
2006-06-26 16:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋