2006-06-26 09:35:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i do'nt recommend adopting. not if you want a child of your own, for life.
yes, tubes can be untied -- a good way to do things.
you can also get your eggs extracted, fertilized (IVF), and implanted. like an egg donation except you're using your own eggs which means there's no surprises and your child will know where their genes, personality, traits, abilities, and medical history comes from .
the adoption industry is a huge money maker for adoption lawyers and agencies and they do'nt tell you how many adult adoptees return to their real families again or how the blood-bond is often far stronger than raising a child. i know adult adoptees who are not only searching and reuniting, but also changing back their names and getting "re-adopted".
and mother who make "adoption plans" during pregnancy have no idea how they'll feel once the baby is born and then they feel coerced into surrendering -- leaves them with many many problems including unresolved grief/loss, PTSD, depression, secondary infertility, etc. i'd not wish this on anyone (i work in a mental health clinic and i see patients with these illnesses)
(have included 4 links about adoption, what i've learned. why i recommend you have a child of your own.)
2006-06-26 10:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by realmomof4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, adoption would be the easy way to go. When I had my tubes tied after my son was born...my dr. explained to me that it is possible to untie them but it is quite expensive and a very risky surgery...with no 100% chance that it will work. So, if youre set on having your own biological child then it is a possiblility, but if you want to be a mom now, I would start checking into adoption agencies as this is the only guaranteed way.....
2006-06-26 09:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Draya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually tell you at the time of surgery if it is reversible or if it isn't. They can still try and undo it, but your chances are not good.
I don't want to be rude and I don't know how old you are. BUT, your spelling and grammar could be compared to my grandson who is in the first grade. There is no reason a person in this country cannot formualte a sentence and spell.
2006-06-26 09:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till the tide goes out
2006-06-26 09:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
correct me if im wrong but when my mom had her tubes tied it didnt really mean tying them she said the procedure was the cut the tube stuck it in the rest of the tube if that makes any sense and burned off you know closed the hole so i dont know if you can undo that
2006-06-26 10:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is are they burnt too.. i see how they tie tubs they just dont tie they cut the falopion tubes. see if u can get them untied if not adopt they need homes too
2006-06-26 09:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have gotten your tubes tide!
2006-06-26 09:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by skysprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can adopt, its impossible to untie the tubes
2006-06-26 09:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by professor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always have them untied but it costs allot of money i was quoted at 15 grand, you could do what do take my friends kids spoil them and send them back all the benfits with no pain
2006-06-26 09:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by mchase_286 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom has her tubes tied and i asked if she ever wanted more kids if she could get her tubes untied and she said yes....sooo get them untied but it's expensive
2006-06-26 09:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋