she is right down the road and prolly gonna die soon.
2006-06-26 09:33:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmm yes and no. If she abused you as a child then no I would not go. If she was a great grandmother then yes you need to go say goodbye to her.
Hugs!
G.G.
2006-06-26 09:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people have issues with hospitals and death and dying. They would prefer to remember granny or grandpa while they were vibrant and healthy. It is not wrong, but you need to think about how she may feel rejected by her family to be alone, also think about any regrets you might have. it is OK to let a loved one go, and sometimes giving them permission to leave is helpful for both of you. It makes her passing easier for her and better for you as you will help yourself come to terms with her death and make it though a sad experience, a better one.
2006-06-26 16:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by cece 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you're close to your grandmother or not, is it worth her leaving without you saying goodbye? Just think about it, would you like to leave knowing that your own grandchild didn't care enough to say goodbye.? What if it were you? Take advantage of a little time spent, it will make the both of you be at peace :O)
2006-06-26 16:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by TeeTee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that you are in a place emotionally where you don't want to see her. I know it is not easy, I was where you are many years ago with my grandfather.
I'm glad now that I went. It has prepared me to deal with what I will soon go through with my parents.
Dealing with death is a sign of maturity. It is something your parents will appreciate as you support them in a very difficult time. They will see you differently - more like an adult.
2006-06-26 16:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldn't. Only because I'm not close to my grandparents. I'd visit my coworker at work in the hospital before my grandma.
Thats just the dang truth, and they say "blood's thicker than water"... Bull.
2006-06-26 16:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong not to visit her. Obviously you have some reason or some problem with her, but she's dying so suck it up and do the right thing.
2006-06-26 16:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by simsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have my grandma admitted in hospital i do go there and sit beside her when nobody takes care of her, otherwise my family is so huge that usually you will find atleast three ppl taking care of her even though it is not visiting hours.
2006-06-26 16:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by revanthp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see her as much as you can like you said she my not have much time on this earth.
go now if you can. time gose fast at the end. i have lost two since christmas.
and i wish i had more time. i miss them both. did not get much time with them whil i was going up go go now
2006-06-26 17:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO VISIT HER IT'S PROBABLY THE LAST TIME YOUR GONNA SEE HER TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER TOO
2006-06-26 18:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it is wrong because old people feel very lonely and she would be very happy if you visited her.
2006-06-26 17:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by barbi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋