2006-06-26 09:28:44 · 14 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, there are lots of people out there swinging...you just gotta be careful
2006-06-26 09:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of people who are into the swinging lifestyle. They come in every shape, size, age, and race.
Just like with everything though, with the good comes the bad. There are couples who are into swinging who are very secure, intelligent, clean, and respectable. But there are also those who have personality issues, are very rude, and can be as dumb as a fencepost.
If you're interested in swinging, you need to treat it like you were buying a house or a car. Do your homework, talk about it A LOT, set up some rules about what you want to do and not do, establish what you're looking for in another couple or person, and go slowly.
And, to all of you who are badmouthing swinging. Be careful, you never know who could be swingers. We've met school teachers, hairstylists, lawyers, pilots, doctors, nurses, mechanics, consultants and just about everything that you can think of, and they all have families. So, you never know...your co-workers, your friends, or even a family member, could be a swinger.
2006-06-26 18:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People for all walks of life swing. You can find people who hold all kinds of jobs and titles in swinging circles. The key to it is being discrete and honest with all partners. First of all make sure all jealousy issues have been addressed as well as guidelines as to where and when it is appropriate to swing and that both sides agree on all rules before you go too far and ruin your marriage. Enjoy and have fun but always be safe.
2006-06-26 16:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're all kinds, both good and bad. Many shapes, sizes, young and old. Upper, middle, and low class. Just be upfront about what you guys are looking for and you'll generally get better feedback.
Do a group search for your area, you'll find there's more people out there swinging than you could have imagined.
Good luck, and have fun!
2006-06-26 16:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVeryong these days. Seriously this has become an epidemic especially amongst the younger crowds. I personally have partaken in a few situations but I had to back out for hidden agenda's. IF you can do it and get away with it more power to ya and I hope it doesn't hinder your relationship
Also, I make a good living and I am disease free and have been since I have been active. This entire sitgma about people with out respect and so on is rediculous and just share different values. IMO we all have issues and who are you to judge me for what I do? Especially if it is for my pleasure?
2006-06-26 16:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by capitalistic_js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question you woiuld want to ask yourself, is why? Even if you did, why not just say your relationship is going to be an open one? I believe people with low moral values find themselves in this situation. Usually, it is the wife who is trying to please her husband.
I think this would destroy your marriage, affecting the very bond upon which the union of marriage is based, committment and honesty. I would think long and consider all the downsides as there are many. Most of the people you would meet, you would not want to shake hands with on the street if you saw them. There are much better ways to liven up your marriage and this is just not one of them.
2006-06-26 16:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who have deep rooted issues with intimacy, people who have deep insecurities and need to feel wanted and desired by mutliple people, people who use it as an excuse to not grow up emotionally, people who have deep sexual hang ups (and are unaware of them), people who are bored, people who are lonely despite the fact that they're with a partner or spouse, people who lack healthy emotional development.
You can pretty much find those kinds of people everywhere.
Do yourself a favor and expect better for yourself.
2006-06-26 16:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
swinging can be fun- it is not the cure to a bad relationship. Just the opposite it takes a strong relationship to do it and have fun. Email me trialtoid@yahoo.com we can chat more abotu your options and feelings
2006-06-26 16:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by trialtoid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly people who like to watch other couples. And yes they do mingle so its possible that someone would want to either swapor mix with you.
2006-06-26 16:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by scrambledmolecues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that have no moral values and is not afraid of disease....such as aids, herpes,ect..........and has no fear of God in their hearts......
2006-06-26 16:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cookie48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋