whats should i do about my best friend?

Question

i feel like i can`t trust my best friend any more like i so badly want to tell her stuff buti have a feeling that she`ll run off and tell her friends!!so now all my feelings and secrets that i use to be able to tell her are bottling up inside what can i do i have no one to talk to!!??and i don`t wanna tell some one i don`t really know

Answer 1

She is not your best friend, if you can not talk to her. So I would suggest that you buy a diary and write down all the things you would have told her. Writing things down is a good way to get stuff off your mind. Nobody will see it and then maybe you can figure your problems out yourself, without worry the whole world will know. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

You need to have a serious heart to heart with your best friend. If you feel like you can't trust her then there is a problem. If she has betrayed your trust before then that's an issue that needs to be resolved so that the two of you can continue being friends. If she hasn't then maybe it's something that you need to get off your chest so that your friendship will be stronger. If she has told your business then it's your job to censor what you tell her.

Answer 3

i dont know your age maybe seems that the world is colapsing in your head , but is better to dont have friends that have a friend like that , trust older people usually they are your best friends. they went into the same. somebody that goes by there telling your life just to be important for 5 minuts is not your friend.
best wishes

Answer 4

Ok wut i would do is jus like talk to ur friend and tell her how u feel even if u feel like u can't tell her..if she gets mad and goes off and tells her friends than u know that she rele isn't a best friend and u should find another friend but the best thing 2 do is jus sit down and talk with her and jus tell her how u feel and if she is a best friend she will understand

Answer 5

If you can't trust your best friend, maybe she's not really your best friend at all. You can always talk to the Lord. Or write your feelings in a journal .

Answer 6

you know what,how can you call someone your bestfriend if you does'nt trust her!It is just your feeling that she can't be trusted right?why dont you try first and then see the result or just simply open up your feelings about her,you said she is you BESTFRIEND then try to talk to her things that bothering you bout her so that it will be easy for you to talk to her your personal problems.
And if she is really your bestfriend then you know her characteristics and well- being.
You can do it girl!
If you are not satisfied yet and doubting your friend, there is only one person you can trust in this world GOd just tell him what you are feeling and pray that he will give you presence of mind in facing your problems......

Go go go go GIRL!!!!!!

Answer 7

i had a friend like that we just stip talking beacuse she told mistly everything she knew and what she thought she knew. so i jsut went to the nearest person i could trust ant that was my anunt she showed me that i really don't have to have a friend to tell my busy to she taught my to writng my feelings down. but me beign me i took all my feelings and turne dthem into poetry and when to good wit the rest i couldn't handle.

Answer 8

If you can't trust her, she's not a friend. Find a new friend. Join clubs or a church group. Write all of your innermost thoughts down. That will help.

Answer 9

Does she tell you her secrets? if so....u guys can exchange secrets and then promise that neither of u will tell and if one person tells the other person has the right to tell. if that doesn't work, Do you have a sister? sometimes, sisters are good to dump your problems on.

Answer 10

If you can't talk to your best friend then she's not your best friend. You need to confide in someone you can trust.