2006-06-26 09:14:18 · 21 answers · asked by mackey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK? I'm not sure what your question is.
If it was during/after you got together than, she's cheated on you and you should leave.
If it was BEFORE you got together with her, what can you really do? The # of partners is just something you can make a judgement on or you can just forget about it- you know what I've told a friend once with the same issue (Thought his GF had slept with way too many guys before him)- she might've been a different person in the past, when she made those mistakes, when she was promiscuious. But this person now is the one you fell in love with, and if she's not sleeping around now, whats it matter?!
I've personally only slept with 4 guys. The guy I'm seeing right now (#4) has probably slept with WELL over 30. ... I wouldn't be surprised if well over 50. Thing is I would never ask the # cuz I dont' really want to know. But since you know, just keep in mind that whats in the past is in the past- she's with you and only you now and thats what matters right?
2006-06-26 09:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 men since the wedding???
So what! Who cares!!! If it was before you got married, just let it go. I'm sure you did a lot of things before you got married too. Leave the past in the past and move forward with the future.
2006-07-03 10:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's healthy and she hasn't since you've been married, then does it matter? Did you ask her the question? Or did she offer the number? Did you marry her after you found out? Then if you didn't find out until after the marriage, then are you going to divorce her over that?
I think that if you love her, truly love her, then it shouldn't matter. Look deep inside you and see if it does. If it really bothers you, get marriage counseling or counseling for yourself, because you have some self confidence issues.
2006-06-26 09:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the deal with you guys? how does this stuff come up?
i can't believe the wifes just offer this info, so i'm sure you guys ask, and insist on a number.
first of all - don't do that. it's rude and none of your business, as long as she's not sleeping around on you. in fact, if i ever get married and my husband asks me, i'll divorce him before i answer that question. it's none of your business, get over it.
and another thing... if you can't take the answer, why ask the question?
2006-06-26 09:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's alot actually but what is your question? To me that's nasty but I have a cousin who has slept with more than 50 so to her that would be considered no big deal.
2006-06-26 17:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as she was practicing safe sex then there really shouldn't be a problem. and as long as she has been tested for STD's and HIV/Aids and she's clean, what's the problem?
men have plenty of sexual partners. actually the more women a man has slept with, the more a "man" he is. but when a women enjoys sex, she's looked down upon. it's stupid.
as long as a women is not allowing herself to be disrespected and is protecting herself, she should be allowed to have as much sex as her heart desires (as long as she's not in a serious relationship)
2006-06-26 09:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by DaBeautiful1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Is she a slut? Probably. Was it all before you were married? If so, then who cares. If not, then you should probably dump her *** or get used to it. And why did you ask the number? My husband has never asked me, and I wouldn't give up that information without severe cause to do so.
2006-06-26 09:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 31
2006-06-26 09:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's so not cool! I hope that you wont continue to accept that kind of behavior out of her!Marriage is a commitment taken before God! Get counseling to move on or get out quick!
2006-06-26 09:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you trying to find out? Slept with them when? Over time, since you married... when?
2006-06-26 09:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by living this life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋