ok so i "tried" breaking up with him but now all he's saying is he's sorry and that he never meant to do anything and stuff like that.So i told him i'd think about it but now i just heard that he was with a girl in the bathroom at a dance last night that i wasnt at.But like how can i break up with him to where i wouldn't have to hear his voice and see him because he makes me feel soo bad when he does that.I really like him no way i love him but it just seems like a lot to be leaving behind but also i cant take all the fighting and cheating anymore....what should i do
2006-06-26 09:14:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it will be hard, but you have to stick to your decision. you deserve so much better. if he keeps cheating he doesn't care and if you keep staying with him he thinks he can cheat all the time and have you to. you need to show him that he can't. it's completely disrespecting you and your feelings, not to mention putting you at risk for stds if you two have sex.
2006-06-26 09:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by strwbrykiwidlite622 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Meet him for a lunch or dinner.
2. Tell him to call the girl who was with him in bathroom right in front of you and tell that girl that he loves you and all he did with her in bathroom was only to have fun.
3. Make sure that he keep his phone on speakerphone.
4. If he can do this, stay with him.
5. If he give lame excuses, eat a lot and leave him behind to pay for lunch/dinner..........never look back.
Go ahead and be a brave girl, you are not a barbie doll-available to play with !!
2006-06-26 09:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by X P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring him. Don't answer his calls or messages. When you see him at school, don't look at him, or ..if you're really strong, when he says "hi" just stare back and say nothing.
He'll get the point.
His apologies are worthless, he isn't yet mature enough to be a good boyfriend. He might be a good friend, but that's about it for now.
2006-06-26 09:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave!!! He will not change. Cut all ties with him. He does not deserve you. How can you feel sorry for him while he's out having fun with other girls, not thinking about you. Look for someone who cares about you. Tough but true.
2006-06-26 09:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your moving out of state and you have no forwarding phone number as of yet.
2006-06-26 09:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by tsij 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone u derseve better
2006-06-26 09:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your number!
2006-06-26 09:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by hataz_envii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋