gone alot and lack of affection and love, says the reason for being gone alot is due to me bitching all the time. seems like an excuss to me.
2006-06-26 09:12:20 · 7 answers · asked by mom2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mine did that too - then I got up and took his cell phone (that I paid the bill) out of the truck (that I bought) and heard 3 different girls ask if he would be out that night. He couldn't have satisfied all three on his best day - but that was how he acted. Time to be a detective....
2006-06-26 09:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by a1025goodgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is putting up a billboard for you to know that he isn't happy. guys can't stand bitching and nagging and if you are prone to do it a lot then it doesn't surprise me that he is gone a lot and isn't very affectionate when he is there. think back to when you were a teenager and your mom or dad would bug you do put up clothes, wash dishes, or whatever your chore of choice was. when they asked you over and over it just made you dread doing it all the more. that's how men are with women nagging them. if you continually stay on them about something they are going to avoid it at all cost. remember that men are wired different than women. if i were you i would take a close look at how i am treating my husband because if he isn't happy and hasn't cheated yet it won't be long before he does. try to keep the nagging at a minimum. they really can't stand it.
2006-06-26 16:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are classic signs
No. 1: You have a gut feeling something isn't right.
No. 2: He accuses YOU of cheating or the like (often guys think that if they do it, you will do it too).
No. 3: There are times you don't know where he is.
No. 4: Justifies his reasoning for doing what he does by making it "your fault".
No. 5: He doesn't let you look at his cell phone or the cell phone bill.
Its hard. I have watched my bestfiend and mother go through the same thing. Men are pigs.
2006-06-26 16:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by tiurf82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask him if he is seeing another...be upfront and honest with him and maybe he will do the same...after all its better to know the truth right away than to be played like a fool. If that dont work go with your own instincts if you feel you arent being cared for and loved enough and theirs a strong feeling hes steppin out on you maybe you need to let him know what its like to not have you around....Ive been there before and what your saying....I hate to say....sounds like a relationship that needs help.
2006-06-26 16:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_bfly02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would the guy act? LIKE A SCUMBAG. Are you the wife or the other woman? Either way, who wants a cheat?
2006-06-26 16:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Click avatar and see some answers I got for my cheater question. There is a lot of signs and a lot of reasons why. Very informative.
2006-06-26 17:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by LizzieBeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
Don't let this guy bamboozle you into thinking he has the right to fool around on you! Dump his stupid a$$!!! You deserve better!
2006-07-03 16:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋