my friend just called me and she is freaking out! she believes that she only has lust for her boyfriend and she keeps asking me is it ok. i don't know what to tell her and i could really use some help.
2006-06-26 09:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by girliegurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
LUST IS WHAT KEEPS A RELATION SHIP ALIVE.
2006-06-26 09:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am somtimes hesitant or scared to answer these questions. The truth is sometimes having a sex friend is actually a good, once you're careful. I had briken up with the first guy I ever had sex with and over the next eight years we remained really close and had protected sex whenever we felt like.
The reson I felt okay about it was I had the conveinience of a great friend and sex when I wanted without the emotional stress that comes with a relationship.
I guess it all depends on your age, etc. or you may be at the stage where you just need a break. Instead of flitting from one to another just for sexual contentment, keep a **** buddy as long as bf is cool with it.
2006-06-26 09:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is fine but to have a relationship without love sounds crazy, but it sounds like a teenage relationship
Good luck
2006-06-26 09:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the age and what each person is seeking from a relationship.
It is not uncommon today to have strictly physical relationships. I have had such relationships but it was understood by both parties that the relationship was strictly physical and nothing else and we enjoyed it for a few years until we each met someone else who we were more interested in besides physicality
2006-06-26 09:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by rh_stepchild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not okay to have just lust in a relationship. If you are only together for lust, then it is not a relationship. You are only a sex partner to your other lover.
2006-06-26 09:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't OK. It is like lying to him. If she doesn't like him for who he is, why bother going out with him. People have lust for movie stars, but they don't date them. Save the dates for someone you can share values, sense of humor, hobbies and such with.
2006-06-26 09:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should find out how the guy feels. If he feels the same way, then it's fine. But, if the guy's in love with her, then she needs to be honest with him. Breaking up with him would be kinder than stringing him along.
2006-06-26 09:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her its not a relationship..he's just her personal f*** buddy....and to stop using the man like that..what if he develops feelings for her?..she's playing with his emotions..unless of course he only likes her for the sex as well..if thats the case then they are "friends with benefits"...
2006-06-26 09:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not ok. if u only like the person u r with for their looks then u need to get ur priorities straight. u dont need to be with somebody bcuz they are cute or sexy , u should be with them for who they are not for what they look like
2006-06-26 09:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she cares for hima nd if she does then tell her she just like to have sex!
2006-06-26 09:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by whateva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋