well im 14 and in the 9th grade and i like my neighbor who is 13 and in the 8th grade. my sister said that his sister would beat me up if i went out with her little brother. i really like him and he really likes me but is that worth losing my friendship i have with his family?
2006-06-26 09:01:40 · 19 answers · asked by When Love Goes Wrong.... 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if it is one year age difference then i would go for it . his sister may not like the idea just bcuz she may think that u r gonna hurt her brother but if u 2 go out then she will learn to deal with it . i went through the same thing and am still going through the fact that my bf's sisters dont think we should be dating but i honestly dont care what they think i love him with all my heart and will continue to love him no matter what
2006-06-26 09:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
13 to 14 is NOT a big age gap. It sounds more like his big sister is just being protective. 13 & 14 IS a little yioung to be dating, but you can be friends. And in a couple of years when you are both old enough to really date, then you can.
2006-06-26 09:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship, there are many things that are more important than age. However, here I have to be honest and say I think you are both too young to even be considering a one-on-one relationship.
Be special friends, close friends, share everything but wait a little while before dating. Enjoy your youth and freedom for a while again. These years never come back.
2006-06-26 09:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are so young. What do you like about him? Does he have good moral character? Good values? Does he live a pure life? Do you have lots of things in common? Write a list of ten qualities you like in a guy, see if he fits the bill. If he does, then explain how you feel to your parents and his...then his sister is out of the equation.
2006-06-26 09:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year is a pretty small age difference if you have a lot in common and make each other happy. If your relationship lasts, one year will eventually become completely insignificant.
Maybe you should talk to him about what his sister's issue is. Maybe she's just protective?
2006-06-26 09:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age does matter in a relationship, but 1 year difference is nothing.
2006-06-26 09:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Alejandro S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a year older than my fiance and we've been together since i was in 9th grade, and i'm 23 now. so if they are really your friends they will be happy for you.
2006-06-26 09:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,age doesn't make a difference as long as you 2 really love each other.don't worry what others say or think,its your life,not theirs
2006-06-26 09:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by mtf1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age so dont matter. and well i would ask his family if its okay first and if they say no then go out with him without his family knowing.
2006-06-26 14:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by preppiegirl96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say no your 14 you don't need a man u need a education
2006-06-26 09:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by suzette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋