Im dating this guy who ive been with for like 3 months now,thing is he's admitted to cheating on me twice with two different girls but now i can hardly even talk to him without him asking what i did today and what im doing tomorrow,i guess he thinks im the one cheating.one day i went play tennis with some of my guy friends and he got mad at me.my question is do yall think i should stay with him an work out these problems or should i just leave him if he doesnt trust me? plz tell me why too.i need help
2006-06-26 08:58:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nope girl break up with him he questioning u because he out doing those things and u should have been broken up with him after u found out he cheated with u with them girls. He doesn't love u because if he did he would have been faithful and love doesn't hurt ppl either. But its up to u because its ur life and nobody can make u do anything u don't wanna do.
2006-06-26 09:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by damn_that_chick_thick17 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i think you guys should take some time off from each other because of the fact that if you guys dont have trust then you dont have anything and no your not married so no one should be on each others back like that especially him if he was the one who cheated from the get go. Honestly i would have left him when he told me about the second cheat because if he did it twice then he will do it again and you can try it again after one cheat but TWO come on now get serious thats just the end of it
2006-06-26 16:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by mslovely217 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider staying with a guy who treats you like dirt? You need to leave him fast, and don't let him talk you into going back. He sounds like a guy that has great potential to be an abuser. The way he questions you shows that he needs to have "control". Don't stay with someone who shows so many signs of hurting you.
2006-06-26 16:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He admitted to cheating and you accepted that. You know that horrible feeling you had upon hearing that, it will never go away. The reason he is questioning you is because he is still cheating on you. Get rid of him now. I don't care how great he can be he is not worth it. You deserve better, believe in yourself, move on.
2006-06-26 16:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! DO NOT STAY WITH HIM! He's already admitted to cheating on you TWICE and you've only been going together for 3 months!! Come on girl! You're better than that! He's a loser and he needs to know that you are TOO GOOD TO DATE A LOSER!
2006-06-26 16:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright sweet heart go back to how your queestion began, you have been dating this guy for 3 months, just 3 and he has cheated on you twice, dump him or get lots of ointment for the sores you'll be getting ! My Father told me something once, if the do it once and get away with it they will do it again! Tell him to go Eff himself, he aint worth the time!
2006-06-26 16:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by cucucurry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once trust is lost in a relationship, then everything goes downhill from there. No matter what, you'll both never feel as comfortable as you used to with each other. Best solution- part ways, but u can remain friends.....
2006-06-26 16:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he doesnt trust you, you shouldn't be with him coz he already cheated on you twice within those 3 months. and if you let him get away with it, he's gonna keep on doing it over and over. and then when u do fall in love with him, you're going to be truly hurt coz u know for a fact that he's cheating on you and sooner or later, you're gonna get sick of him doing those things to you.
2006-06-26 16:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by hataz_envii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks he has the right to control you when he's the one who has cheated. Break up with him. He cheated on you, and that's reason enough and relationships with guys who are controlling don't usually work out well, at all.
2006-06-26 16:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have only been together for a couple of months and he treats you like that it is time to split. things will only get worse as time goes on. move on. maybe he will grow up before his next relationship. and by the way, any man who cheats on you does not love you and is not worth your love and time.
2006-06-26 16:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋