what would you do?

Question

how would you tell your parents that your haveing a kid at 14?? what would you do??

Answer 1

be truthful and let them know how scarred you are and how you need their support and wisdom.

Answer 2

Sorry but there is no way to make it a pain free confession. You just have to tell them. I would tell the one I was most comfortable with first. For me that was my mom. We both cried, but she got me to the doctor to get a check up and we worked things out. It wasn't easy, but I am 34 now and I have a wonderful son who just graduated high school. Things that seem like the end of the world right now can have a way of turning out to be good. Just always remember that your baby deserves the best and try to do what you need to do to give it the best. Which right now is being mature and facing up to your mistake and telling your parents. Many girls have had to do this so you aren't alone. My heart is with you because I have been there. Good luck to you and God bless you and your baby.

Answer 3

You need to tell them ASAP. Early prenatal care is very important. They are going to be upset, hurt and angry at first but they will get over it. The most important thing I have to say to you is absolutely DO NOT consider adoption of any kind not even open adoption. It is not the loving option all the propaganda tries to make you believe. It is a multi-million dollar industry run by greedy lawyers and adoption agencies. Mothers and Babies are traumatized for life when separated at birth. This is the absolute truth and there is plenty of documentation out there to prove it.

Answer 4

I would tell my parents over dinner. It will not be easy. Telling them is important because you are allowing the burden to eat at you and it is not healthy for you at an early pregnancy. All they can do is listen, get mad. Then after the madness comes the love, the shopping, the doctors' appointments. You will be okay. You are not the first.

Answer 5

This is one of those situations where you just have to suck it up and tell them. If you think you're mature enough at 14 to have a baby (which I don't think you are by the way) then you need to be mature enough to tell your parents.

Answer 6

Sit your parents down and tell them you have to talk to them. Then explain to them that you know having sex this early was a mistake,but you're facing the consequences because you're now pregnant.

Now,I don't mean that the baby is a mistake,because babies should NEVER be thought of as "mistakes". However,having sex before you were ready was a huge mistake.

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Answer 7

I would take them out to the fanciest restuarant you could hire a limo to take you there then pay for everything then at the end aftr you get home go mom and dad i need to tell you something i am _ _ weeks pregnant. If you dont have enough money then just butter them up first somehow

Answer 8

You need to sit them down and tell them NOW.

Then consider adoption. Give the poor child a chance with a family that can give him/her a decent life. At 14 you are far too young to raise a child.

Answer 9

It is kind of a big secret to keep. Your parents will find out. The easiest way is to just say it. I recommend you tell them now so they can help you make decisions and plans. Good luck

Answer 10

Oh my!! You should be having crushes on boys not having sex. But you just need to come out a tell her. You are going to need her now more then ever. Talk to your mom first and then you both can talk to your dad. You need to tell her soon, so she can get you in to see the doctor. The first trimester is very important.

Answer 11

Just say it. There's pretty much nothing you can do besides that. It's going to be hard, but I'm pretty sure they'll notice before you have the kid. I'm sorry.