is there something wrong with me?
2006-06-26 08:52:52 · 23 answers · asked by solivares14 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
okay maybe not like 10-15 years more like 10 years and younger sry for the confusion. and i'm 16 almost 17
2006-06-26 08:58:47 · update #1
no cause by your name it seems like you are 14. I think alot of 25 year olds are hot and I am 15 but going up to 30 or 29 is kinda gross.
2006-06-26 08:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by funkyfresh 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you just dig the maturity level, confidence, and self assurance of older guys. However, you might find happiness with guys closer to your age with the same qualities. Then you can talk about more common experiences versus a father-daughter vibe you get with older men.
Dating way older men is a cop-out. Giant age differences get weird and freakshow-like.
This might be okay in your 30's but if you are in your 20's, you don't have enough life experience to handle it.
2006-06-26 15:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Iomegan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presumably because the qualities you find most attractive aren't common among guys your age. Depending on your values and virtues, it could be maturity, responsibility, money, the ability to purchase liquor or tobacco, etc.
If I were to take a stab at it--and this is without knowing a thing about you--I'd guess that it's got something to do with the fact that older men generally don't feel the need to prove themselves like younger ones do. They have less of that "Look at me! Look at me!" attitude about them.
2006-06-26 15:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it seems like you are looking for a more mature person. But, do not date someone who is 26 when you are 16. You must be mature enough to know that that is not a good idea. Don't worry you will meet someone who interests you that is your age. Don't rush it, enjoy being young.
2006-06-26 16:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is not anything wrong with you. That is just your preference with guys. You should not feel as if there is something wrong with you. This is just something that you happen to like. There are girls out in this world today who prefer men are at least like twenty years older than them. So this is pretty normal.
2006-06-26 15:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of young women are attracted to older men because we are genetically programmed to. Older me are more secure financially as well as with who they are. Mature men can make us feel really safe.
2006-06-26 15:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by machinator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal, the mind set of a sixteen yr old girl is compatible to older men. let me ask you is these thoughts sexual? and have you ever had sex with an older man before, if so then your body craves what it wants. go for it you will enjoy it better if its with an older age group.
2006-07-04 04:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by concernedmb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey your maturity level is really high for your age based upon how you were raised or the experiences you've been through that draws you to people who understand you more than those your age. or maybe its all in your head and your just a Lil freak. lol.
2006-06-26 15:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by blessedchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, there's nothing wrong with you.some older guys are more mature.maybe that's why you like them.or maybe your not attracted to younger guys because a lot of them are childish. hope this helps.
2006-06-26 16:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you, my friend. it may be the fact that an older guy makes you feel secure and that he's more mature than the guys you are around
it's absolutely fine.
2006-06-26 15:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋