I caught my husband watching porn 3 months after my marriage. I have caught him 4-5 times in the past 5 years of my marriage. He says he has stopped, thats what he said every other time. What are my chances?
2006-06-26 08:45:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-06-27 02:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn addict? A porn addict would watch it everyday, several times a day. If he's just watching porn every once is a while he's not an addict. I think you need to lighten up a bit. Maybe offer to watch some with him, get a little adventurous in the bedroom.
edit: wow April G, 13 years old, I don't think so. Someone may be jealous of the hot ladies in those videos...hmmm...
2006-06-26 08:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Coz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like none. Porn addicts are like any other addict -- and they will spend more time watching that crap than they do working, or spending time with you and friends. Now is your next question "should I leave him?" That depends. Why a guy gets off looking at 13 year old girls is a mystery to any thinking person. Problem here is "What is love?" It is Respect, Admiration and Passion. 2 of the three will usually make a relationship work, all three, bingo. But he is eroding your Respect and Admiration for him..... heavy stuff..... Been there, honey, and I left. Because one addiction led to others.....Good luck
2006-06-26 08:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. He loves it. I had an ex-boyfriend like that. We dated for 2 years and one day I came across all these websites that were disgusting. He wanted to marry me and that was actually one of the determining factors that made me end our relationship. Porn is not good. I was fortunate enough to meet a wonderful man nearly a year after that breakup and we've known each other 3 years now, and been married nearly 1. A good guy doesn't look at a porn.
2006-06-26 08:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is a porn addict for 8 years now and he cannot stop logging on. I don't know what to tell you. marriage counselors advise that this behavior is cheating....I do not want to have anything to do with my husband when this happens. You cannot trust him i am sorry.
2006-06-26 09:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you ought to call kin to come again get you. i'm not asserting you ought to circulate away him, yet you certainly choose a while to clean your head. supply it a pair of days and then the two considered one of you ought to truly sit down and communicate. in the time of the communicate, in case you experience like he's being cheating at any element then i might say circulate away him. I consider the different answer - porn is one factor, yet traveling dating web pages is entirely diverse to not point out the "secret" e mail account. He of course has no appreciate for you, your marriage, or the existence you have equipped mutually. you have in user-friendly terms been married 5 months - do you opt to spend the subsequent 50 years putting up with this? Its very uncommon for a cheater to alter.
2016-12-08 12:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you couldn't trust his word now 4-5 times. Can I ask ? What has changed ?
2006-06-26 08:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hiding it and lying about it, then it's a problem.
If you have a problem with porn, then he should respect your wishes. If he still does it, then he is disrespecting you. Seek marraige counseling, and if he refuses then he is in denial and *good luck with that*. You can't help him fix what he doesn't think is broken.
2006-06-26 08:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is hooked that might not be a problem first tell him you want to watch them with him it may be a big spark in your love making if he says no that might be a problem but he might be shy I watch porn all the time n it doesnt bother my love making at all
2006-06-26 09:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he wont stop untill you make him. Maybe you need to watch with him and ask him questions as to what he hopes to gain from the movie.
2006-06-26 08:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋