2006-06-26 08:41:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Magazines
I threw my husband out of the house and stapled all of the centerfolds to the front door because I was fed up with the insecurity it was causing me. If he loves you, he will have NO problem doing so. If you find them hidden, then he doesn't love you the way you deserve. My guy learned the hard way and nearly lost me .... you are queen of your castle.
2006-06-26 11:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Depends. Are you making the request because there's a child in the home? If so, then you have every riight to make sure that nothing inappropriate for children enter the home.
However, if your issue with Playboy is that you feel threatened or intimidated in any way, then understand that that's the larger problem. Plus, he may feel that you are either jealous, insecure, too demanding or all of the above. Thats a really bad way to start off living together. Either the fight will start there, or it'll start after he says yes, moves in and then you see him bringing in Penthouse instead.
2006-06-26 08:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by shukuken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you need to worry about is timing. Now don't go telling him after he moves in, he can't bring his playboy's. That is not fair.
Now if you tell him before he does then you have given him notice enough so he can make a decision on moving in with you or not.
Rules set before is the only way to go. That way there aren't to many surprises
2006-06-26 11:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vonicatripod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are being a *****. Playboy is really a magazine for products, movies, fiction, with the ancillary benefit of having an 18 year old girl in it. If he was getting Hustler or something highly explicit, then I'd agree with you.
But if you can't handle Playboy (hell, I am gay and I subscribe)... what are you going to do when he farts?
2006-06-26 10:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to move in with u? and if hes ur boyfriend he shouldnt be looking at playboy and buck wonderz i hate u so much and i dont even know u y r u such a hore??? omg and stop saying have a great day oh im sure i'll have a great day since my boyfriend looks at playboy
2006-06-26 09:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by ~~Claire~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear it is, you are attempting to change something about him. You knew I am sure, early on that your b/f was into Playboy, if this was a problem you should have made your objections known early on. It helps to allow a man to be who is, that's why a number of relationship end or are changed b/c women especially do not allow for their man to retain some of his personality, that's one of the reasons men cheat.
2006-06-26 08:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by aj1908 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too much, if that what you want. People who live under the same roof have every right to approve or disapprove of whatever the want. If you don't want pornography where you live then say so. If your housemate/boyfriend/consenting adult refuses to abide by your wishes, then reconsider allowing him to stay there. The best option is to have him sign a lease agreement which spells out in advance what you will not allow in your home.
2006-06-26 12:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should not be worried about things like that. Playboy or Porno movies. Guys like that kind of things. Besides, it is only a picture, you are his in real life. You should find away to enjoy it with him. Be a freak, its funner.
2006-06-26 10:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by bbevans2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playboys are okay, they have funny jokes and you can order some sexy stuff out of there or maybe he will buy it for you....there really aren't that many pictures. Plus you can compare yourself to the centerfold and see if you have better measurements.
2006-06-26 08:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have to be together on what choices are made from the relationship...but you need to think about why you don't want it.
is it because other people have told you its wrong, as women we grow up being told that we shouldn't be proud to be sexual creatures, that sex is gross, guys are gross and that equals guys liking sex and all that has to do with it, whereas we women are supposed to just tolerate it. now if the reasons you don't want porn in your home have come from you as an adult with a mind that can think for yourself, then stick by your morals and values! but if your feeling is coming from how other people have wanted you to think for your whole life, then think some more and do it for you...anything you do, do 4 u
2006-06-26 09:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by lisa c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no it's not to much at all....i asked my b/f to stop and he said your right i should becasue i have you. I thought it was sweet but at the same time if he has you what would he need a magazine for? Just ask him nicely...im sure he will understand.
2006-06-27 08:38:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋