I recently found out my hub cheated on me with one of our family friends who is also married. We used to hangout alot in the past 3 years.
Well, from the last month itself there have been some activities happening and I want to ask if it sounds like my hub and the woman are still serious about each other or if it's love they have?
One month ago my hub told the woman Sarah about myspace and she joined it. well she always writes him emails in that and in yahoo and he always replies most of the time. Two days before father's day she sent him something about her aunt's mother dying and it was hard on the family. I do check my hub's email sometimes. But then my hub wrote her back caring for her. Then on father's day she sent him a greeting card, which he read and write away he replied back to her saying: Thanks for the nice card:
Well i am surprised that he even replied back to her, ya know?
anyway then it seems she sent him an image saying Happy Father's day. I wanted
2006-06-26 08:28:31 · 10 answers · asked by katezambelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to post a message for my hub as well for dad's day and I sent him one saying Happy Father's day. so then i checked back later in the evening on my hub's myspace. he had deleted the image that the woman sent him. But, she apparently wrote him a message in myspace asking how his day was, and so the day after he replied to her saying exactly what he did on dad's day.
Then 3 days later he announced that he created a layout and wanted people's opinion of it. So the woman sent him a comment in myspace saying it was a cool layout and nice music. then she sent me a comment saying it was also nice, his comment. anyway she emailed him in yahoo and told him that she posted amessage for him and me and it looks nice, his layout. Then i noted the time he logged on to his account that morning. He checked in 10 minutes after she sent him that comment and email. Does that tell you guys how desperate my hub is to check his mails and info as soon as he knows she wrote to him? he is so
2006-06-26 08:32:39 · update #1
interested in her???
2006-06-26 08:32:50 · update #2
Do you feel that he deleted her image comment because he knew I would be on there posting him something, or did he delete it cause he did not like her image? I mean the latter comment she posted about his nice layout is still on his page as he kept that!
2006-06-26 08:38:03 · update #3
he cheated on you and he continues to have a relationship with this woman...he lost the right to maintain the friendship as soon as you found out he was ******* her!!!! what is wrong with you, where is your self respect....you need to make him work a lot harder at making this marriage work....
2006-06-26 08:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, the is the biggest sign you will ever get. Ok, He already slept with her, now he is keeping in contact with her checking his e-mail on point just to see if she responded. Come on as a women i know you see all the RED flags here. First off MARRIED people should in NO way be associate with MYSPACE because it is not something that will benefit the marriage and if you don't know the people then they shouldn't be associated with the marriage. My things is that if you don't know his friends or if he don't know ur friends or if they are not friends of the MARRIAGE then there is NO reason yall should be associated with those ppl. MYSPACE is the last place a married person need to be because there are a billion (probably more) ppl out there who are looking to get with guys and a MAN being a MAN if he THINKS he can get away with CHEATING then u betta believe he goin do it....But like i said the RED flags are there not what are you going to do to DEAL WITH IT?????????????????????????????????????????????
2006-06-26 08:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attention from the opposite sex can really feed a persons ego. You need to take a stand especially because of their history. Innocent comments can evolve into something sexual quickly. I would call her and tell her to not email or contact your husband. I would then tell him what you told her and tell him to not respond to her anymore. Dont become a victim or take any blame. You set the boudaries and then enforce as needed.
He violated your trust and you have every right to check him out until he has earned that trust back. Dont feel bad for doing that.
2006-06-26 08:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an issue when it comes to spying on a person's email. I don't care if it's husband/wife. I don't look in my husband's wallet even (unless he asks me to get something) and vice versa because we respect each other.
But now that you have invaded that space, you have worries. Maybe if you left it alone, you wouldn't be worried. If he isn't seeing her and you bring it up, it's going to start a fight. I have a friend who is a guy and married and I'm married and we talk on the phone, email, etc. but that doesn't mean anything is going on and it's not. I think you may be asking for trouble. He's going to be mad that you invaded his privacy too.
2006-06-26 08:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - it looks like they both still have feelings for each other and it won't be long until they want to be with each other all the time. Get ready to fight in court because it looks like this is heading straight for a DIVORCE.
2006-06-26 08:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him something to read titled Divorce Papers with instructions to sign on the dotted line. And after that, he could talk to and sleep with whoever he wants because all I know is that it won't be me.
2006-06-26 08:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you confront him yet? are you being in denial excepting this bullshit and you are the WIFE????? How wonder he doesn't respect you! you don't respect YOURSELF. CONFRONT HIM AND SINCE YOU ARE CORRECT YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM! Really! never stay with a cheater he will NEVER respect you. time to move on girl the MARRIAGE WAS VIOLATED. AND NOW IT IS GETTING DEEPER. DON'T SLEEP! WAKE THE *** UP!
2006-06-26 08:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced there are tremendous men in the international no longer each guy is a douche. So this guy sounds like he likes you and would have an interest in you yet has he requested you out on a date yet is the question. only save doing what you're doing and finally he will ask you out. For some men awesome out with women is adequate and they are only tremendous often. besides the undeniable fact that this guy ought to like you for him to bypass out of his way lower back and lower back for you.
2016-11-15 07:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall need to get out myspace place
2006-06-26 08:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so nosy, get a hobby and leave him alone...he's allowed to have friends, isn't he?
2006-06-26 08:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by photoguy1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋