WHat do you think i should do about this..............?

Question

when me and bf first started going everything was find hec call me just to say hi sometimes and for the past month things have change he doesn't call and when you do get to talk to him he's alwasy busy or is quite on the phone so what would you think and how would you feel about this do you think he's seeing someone else or just isn't interested? and do you think i should break up with him?

please answer i need help thank all answer will be helpfull

Answer 1

sounds to me like he's cheating and he isn't interested maybe you should talk to him and ask him whats the problem and if things doesn't change then you no what you need to do

Answer 2

Stop guessing. be mature. Ask him straight up. Say you've noticed a change and whether he is still feeling you or not. But be prepared for the answer if you take this approach. If you're the one doing all the calling... then i think that this is a pretty clear indication that he's not interested. Whether he is seeing somene else is another story.

Answer 3

Its called hitting a plateau which means both of you guys need to start hanging out or finding other interest with each other or alone. There's nothing wrong with giving each other room to breath, its a natural thing. Just do something.

Answer 4

I think you do need to talk to him: saw what you really fell about his distance and that you can't stop comparing with the first weeks/months of your relationship, when he showed he cared so often. Explain to him your doubts about his lack of attention, ask him gently if he has someone else (you don't want to scare him, man can lie if willing to prevent a screamy/teary rupture). Treat him very carefully, maybe he's just accommodated to your relationship and feels he doesn't need to conquer you anymore. he may be having someone else, or he just take's you for granted.

Answer 5

Don't talk to him for a week, don't call him. The first time he calls you in that week, don't answer, if he calls you a second time then you knows he's interested. If he doesn't call you at all in that week, then you know he's not interested and you need to end whatever ties that you have with him and leave him alone.

Answer 6

Don't call him, don't break up with him, just leave him hanging and go have a good time without his sorry ***, cause if he's always busy without you, he either doesn't have enough time to take care of you, or he just doesn't want to...

Answer 7

Talk to him and ask him what is wrong. If he won't tell you then he is probably seeing another girl. He may just be going through a rough time in his life. If so try to help him through it.

Answer 8

PATHETIC.....these are the famous signs and you women, teens IGNORE.
HE IS QUIET
DOESN'T CALL
ALWAYS BUSY
DUH
SHOULD YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM? YES AND PLEASE DON'T FUKING WASTE YOUR TIME TO CALL AND TELL HIM. JUST DO IT. OKAY I AM ON YOUR SIDE BUT please you are making women look like asswipes already. The signs are there. as a matter of fact why dont you search "the signs your boyfriend doesn't want a relationship" hmmm and see what you see. dont call him. CUT HIM OFF ;)

Answer 9

If you are in High School then he is probably just being immature, if you are older then he is either cheating or not interested, especially if he doesn't even ask to see you anymore.

Answer 10

I'd just back off and leave him alone. Just go on your own way. He doesn't feel he wants to be the one to break it off and is waiting for you to do that. Don't act like it bothers you.