It been 5 months, and it doesnt bother me...AAACK!
2006-06-26 08:19:26 · 11 answers · asked by cherry_15517 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was molested and raped ALOT when I was a child, and I am going through diagnosed PTSD right now, and when he touches me I cant stand it. It drives him absolutely crazy, but I cant stand him to even look at me that way...what should I do?
2006-06-26 10:35:09 · update #1
i am in the same situation...I have sex with my husband anyway and he knows how I feel and we don't speak about my lack of desire for him. You need to develop an active fantasy life or decide if you plan not to cheat as the years go on and on... Did you marry for financial security? If you did then you have made a deal. I do not find my husband attractive, but i married him and he gets mad if he does not get sex. You need to find out why you feel this way. Go to counseling.. good luck
2006-06-26 08:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk. Sex in a marriage is such an important element and should be used to celebrate! There's probably some other issues at hand that you need to get too and the sex is just a symptom, not the problem.
And if it isn't bothering you that it's been 5 months then you might need a little excitement. Love sex! It's a gift and a great part of marriage!
2006-06-26 08:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? lots of questions come to mind..how long have you been married, do you love your husband, are you physically sick, are you depressed, is he abusing you, are too tried from work, is he not romancing you any longer, just had a baby, menopause, has he done something...there is always a reason for our wanting to do something or not doing something...have you talked to your hubby about this..what does he have to say...because it could be bothering him even if it doesn't bother you...and unfortunately he may going looking for sex somewhere else...if it's just you don't want to anymore...so, if you want this man, you need to think of him also, not yourself..and he maybe just as happy without sex as you are, and if that is the case....you are very fortunate it.
2006-06-26 09:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't feel the same then you have a very big problem.
When your married one of your marital duties is sex with your spouse. Sex should be received inside not outside the house
for your spouse.
Now, if you don't want sex with your husband anymore your inviting a potential for cheating/infidelity as a result of your actions. When you say no sex anymore, I feel he doesn't have to
bare the burden of such decision.
If you don't want a divorce, please don't create situations that can lead to one.
2006-06-26 08:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a better wife and have SEX!!!! work at it until you want it ...ge the book "The Proper care and feeding of husbands" by Dr. Laura It will make your marriage the best ever... Mostly have lots of sex!
2006-06-26 08:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by EmmaGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purchase two C batteries and get plenty of rest for your hand...
Seriously, talk to your husband..I'm sure you guys can get through this.
Get counseling..AND find out why you haven't been intimate in 5 months, is it possible he's having affair?
2006-06-26 08:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to spread your legs pure and simple
what do you think a man wants with a woman other than her little stinky hole?
nothing thats what
2006-06-26 08:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Beaver L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek therapy. You might also want to start praying if you don't already!
2006-07-03 09:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does he feel about the sitiation? Is he pestering you about having sex?
2006-06-26 08:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with me
2006-06-26 08:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by schnelting16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋