He does call the 3 boys his kids and they love seeing and spending time with him more than their real father - he just has his priorities work 1. hobbie 2. and us 3. because they have me and i am their mom - they see him 2 evenings a week and every other weeekend but he doesn't understand that we miss him and want to see him more - instead he starts telling us that maybe he isn't the right guy for us then... whats that all about???
2006-06-26 08:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by bigcoolkid1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
probably when you get married to him, because technically you ARE his girlfriend and not wife, so he will consider calling you his fam when he starts a fam - down on one knee with a ring in his hand. He is prolly really scared of tying the knot and getting a whole 3 kids all of a sudden BOOM. He s a guy !! they are all aftraid of ANY commitment - especially that kind of commitment. So nothing weird is going on if you ask me, he is just waiting to really see whether he wants a future with you and your three kids. YOu probably should hurry him up and try to find out exactly whats up and whats keeping him so long from proposing. and go from there...Good luck !!
2006-06-26 08:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe b/c you are a ready made family, he is having second thoughts. TRUST me, it is better to find out now, take some time off and see what happens. The boys need a role model in their life all the time,,,,,,not just when he feels like it
2006-06-26 15:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you that he's not the right guy for you. You need to let this weirdo go and start dating normal men who love their families and value the time spent with their family.
2006-07-03 16:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say....Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free.
2006-06-26 15:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe never
2006-06-26 15:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋