pregnant and stressed?

Question

Hi I'm 19 and 9 weeks along, I was on depo when i got pregnant. I got the shot on about the 3rd day of my last period, my bf does not believe i got it, so can you tell ur pergant from a urine test while on depo? and can you get blood taken to prove ur on it?

even if i got the shot over 10 weeks ago?

Answer 1

I never heard of someone getting pregnant on the Depo shot. So it's not completely surprising that your bf doesn't believe you. If you are pregnant you shouldn't be using depo anymore. Yes, a pregnancy test will work and do you have your doctor's receipt from your appointment to show him?

Answer 2

i got pregnant twice on depo. Most of my friends got pregnant on depo. That 3 percent is wrong if you ask me. More like 30 percent. But you can find out from a urine and a blood test. Depo or no depo

Answer 3

Yes, to both. It is possible to get pregnant while on Depo. It does not prevent ovulation, it is supposed to prevent implantation. Alot of the time this happens anyway. I have a friend who both of her babies were conceived while on depo. It will show up in your system on a blood test that you were on depo if you let them know that is what you need to have proof of.

Answer 4

yes you can tell from a urine test. Even if you can prove your on the drug there is still about a 3 percent failure on the drug as a whole. You can still get pregnant on depo its just a lot harder.

Answer 5

Don't make the same mistake I did...
Dear La’Vitta,

My Precious baby… I miss you so much. I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am. I regret what I did. I wish I could have died on that table when you did. I thought school and my dreams were more important and that you and I would have a bad life if you were born. Now I realize that you my child, my baby would be more important than any of that. Your birth date is coming up. No matter if I have another baby or not you were my first. You always will be. You are my special baby. I’m so sorry I was supposed to protect you. I was your mom. Ever since they sucked your poor little helpless body out of me I have felt so empty. Nobody knows pain and emptiness like I do. They said you couldn’t feel it but I know you could. I read it in a book that you already had developed your nerve endings. I hope I die as painfully as you. Even more so. I would give anything to take that day back. To have just run out of that room. Out of that murdering house of innocent souls. I wish I could have felt you kick. I wish I could hold you. I would have been the luckiest woman in the world to hold you in my arms. No one told me no Vitta! Everyone told me to do it. Why did I listen to them? I hate Jaime! I hate my mom! And most of all I hate your dad for not being a good person cause if I would have got pregnant by a good man I would have kept you. I was just so scared you wouldn’t have a daddy. Everyone told me if I had you, we wouldn’t have a good life. But Vitta, I would have done everything in my power to make you the happiest little girl in the world. That would have been the best moment in my life, to see you being born. I’d have so many pictures of you I’d have to rent an extra room. I wouldn’t care if a man didn’t want me cause I had you. **** him! I would have worked at Wendy’s all my life if I had to. I couldn’t use the option of adoption cause I just wouldn’t be able to give you away once I seen you or even just you kicking in my belly. How selfish of me. Now here I am still having sex! I have been so destructive to my self and my body since you’ve been gone. Multiple partners, doing porn, lying, cheating, … it’s like I am trying to make myself hurt. Life isn’t worth living without you. When I do have a baby… I will never love that baby like I love you. Any real love I had died when you died. Any ounce of dignity got sucked right out of me along with you. I am so ****** up now. I want to go to that clinic and tell all those girls, don’t do it! Don’t make the same mistake I did! But that won’t bring you back. None of those girls will be affected the way I am cause as I said nobody loves their dead baby more than I do. This is so painful to write but I finally had to do it! I will bury this letter just as you should have been with respect! I was a month pregnant when I found out about you. Took me two months to make a decision. It actually wasn’t completely made up; I just had to do it before the deadline. If I had a little more time to think I wouldn’t have done this. I cried every day you were inside me trying to figure out what to do.
I want to slit my throat. I would imagine my blood is my pain. As the pain seeps out of my body I would slip away to a place of darkness… leaving behind the reality of the horrible thing I did. I can’t live without you anymore baby.

Love,
Mommy

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Answer 6

It is VERY possible. My bestfriend was on the pill and the day after she had sex she even took the day after pill and still became pregnant. It must have been meant to be. Nonetheless, congratulations!!!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I am not sure take him to the doctor with you and ask your doctor those questions. If he wont go have your doctor put it in writing.

Answer 9

let him talk to whoever gave it to u and he/she the dr. whoever that gave it to u will probaly tell him!!