He's given his blessing on girls, but not another guy. I've had way more of a sex drive than him lately and need more! I'm bi-sexual and haven't been with a woman for years. Do you think this is a good idea on my part, or will it ruin things? Is it a trap???
2006-06-26 08:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by La la la la D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell you what, let me hook you up with my wife. You and her can get nasty, but I will have to watch. This is a GREAT idea. If your man can't keep up with you, why not go chasing some tail with out him, as long as that tail has a verginer. What are you doing this weekend? Or tonite? or right now?
2006-06-26 08:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hard thing with this situation is that your husband might say that it's ok with him but deep inside he may not feel so sure or he might feel differently when you actually do it. You might also develop an emotional attatchment to the "girlfriend" and that could create problems too. It seems like that best thing to do would be to work out ways for your husband to please you even if his sex drive is lower.
2006-06-26 15:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Reverie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, good for you. I dont think he would tell you that if he didnt mean it. Go for it. I would. I have only been with a girl once, and would probably be way too shy to again.
Now, I wouldnt tell him a whole bunch of details, or go on and on about who ever it is you find to play with. I would let him know that you had a new friend, and leave it at that. If he asks, then do tell, but dont throw it in his face you know what I mean?
Dude, I think thats great. who ever you meet, give her a kiss for me. I envy you. relax and have fun.
2006-06-26 15:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks girls are ok because he doesn't feel threatened by another girl vs. another man. It may very well ruin things but I would probably ask him more detailed questions before actually persuing it.
2006-06-26 15:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be cool i mean if y'all want to do a threesome then that's y'all but if he gave you the go ahead to get a girl he might feel like he has the right to get one to. if you all do it together i think it's less likely that he could or would throw it up in your face.But i think you should rethink adding a third person in your relationship
2006-06-26 16:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by midnight red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a good idea. what, i wish my man would agree to that. I would love to have sex with a female and be with my man at the same time.
2006-06-26 15:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ke Ke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is setting you up more then likely. If you really investigate the reason for his blessing...more then likely he has someone else too.
2006-06-26 15:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch out for the thin ice.
2006-06-26 15:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by therandman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah good luck on that.
2006-06-26 16:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says it is ok then I feel you may proceed.
2006-06-26 15:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋