2 kids and an ex who doesn't treat the kids how they should be and has to touch ur man every time u drop the kids off or pick them up????
2006-06-26 08:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by Heather B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why not .. if they love you back .. !
2006-06-26 08:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, love is a feeling you cannot deny. You shouldn't put your feelings aside because the ex is trying to stand in the way of anything. Just ignore her and you treat the kids how they should be treated. If she didn't provide that for them, they'll want to be closer to you anyway. Give them unconditional love, attention, affection, and praise them constantly. When they mess up, just tell them to try harder next time. Do not let this woman manipulate her way into your happy relationship. Talk to your mate and tell him he needs to let her know it's over between them and the things she's doing are inappropriate. She's only trying to see if she can cause problems, so just ignore her as best as you can, and go on with life as if she's non-existant (except when it comes to her children). You can't change the way you feel for this guy over some ex....she's an ex for a reason!
2006-06-26 08:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem with it, trust me you can't win. They are his kids and nothing you say is going to sound right regarding his kids and the person he shared that moment with even if they are no longer together. They are not your kids so it's not your place to say how they should be treated unless it's blatant abuse of course. That is down to you partner to resolve. Regarding the touching.... that may be perceived as jelousy even if you are right!
2006-06-26 08:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋