Seems as too many people want to play a BDSM Master/Mistress or the submissive and not really live the lifestyle. I want to know how many people live it truely, not just use it for the sex.
2006-06-26 08:10:47 · 7 answers · asked by Dreamy K 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Well i am a submissive in real life..but i know a lot of people who use the lifestyle just for sex, but there is many more aspects of the lifestyle than just sex.
2006-06-26 08:17:34 · update #1
I used to at one time live that life style. I was a very dominate master that was deeply into John Norman's Gor series. For me it was a natural way to live and I always knew that deep down my sub had the true power. Wish I could tell more but I hate to discuss myself to much.
2006-06-26 08:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anubis_70 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship once that, as it got more serious, focused more and more on the lifestyle outside the bedroom. I have to say I didn't like it much. It felt very fake for me. The role-playing was fun in bed, but in real life I got sick of biting my tongue and taking orders. Guess it just wasn't for me. I will say that I met some wonderful people and made some very close friends during that time that are very active in the life, and as long as they're happy, I'm happy for them.
2006-06-26 18:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My master is my master no matter what we are doing. He is like that most of the time, but sometimes we both need a break, whether it is because he is tired, or I need to stop the bleeding before I bleed out. I wouldn't have it any other way.
2006-06-26 15:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a dom but it doesn't always come into play, some women just like vanilla sex and some like to push the envelope. it usually starts with spanking or the holding of wrist
you'll have to email me for more info.........
It is so awesome !
2006-06-26 15:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by DarkStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BDSM? Obviously I don't have that lifestyle. I don't even know what it means.
2006-06-26 15:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh....nice question girl...I know we have discussed this very often...just as a forewarning, My BDSM question got pulled after 3 days...
*winks*
2006-06-26 15:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many do live the lifestyle you just have to find them in groups or specific parties.
2006-06-26 15:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by walkingbumblebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋