All my friends do. I feel sorta bad, is it odd that im 14 and still never had a boyfriend?
Is it important? should i really look for one?
2006-06-26 08:09:56 · 30 answers · asked by TiffenyBreaks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aw, just take it easy. Growing up is hard enough as it is. Let them come for you. You're being single could be seen as if you are being choosey (yes, do be that). It becomes a challenge. If you are being all that you can and should be, they will start noticing in plenty of time. Never let on that you are lonely or desperate. Don't even let on that you really, really, really want a date. Think of yourself as that confident cool kitty that walks the fence between two yards filled with dogs. They will notice, and want, in time. Patience, girl, cool, confident patience.
2006-06-26 08:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 13⤊ 0⤋
You are still too young to have a bf. Don't worry the others are doing things before time and there is no joy left to do it when you have to. For example A rose bud is cut and put in a vase only when it has bloomed a bit you dont see it in a vase when it is still abud. So everything has its own time. I know you are going through peer pressure right now. Just put your mind to other things like sports arts dance and see there is a lot to experience out there then to just have a bf for the sake of it.
2006-06-26 15:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by charmaine m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not. 14 is very young indeed. I was 20 before I had a proper girlfriend. It is not important to "have a boyfriend" just for the sake of it. More important is to wait until you have found the right one!
2006-06-26 15:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - 14 is still a child and they have boyfriends based on the same pressure you feel. You are young and are way too emotionally immature for a relationship. Do not let peer pressure make you do things you don;t want to do, or feel the need to.
2006-06-26 15:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie, many girls and boys are not even allowed to date until they are 16. If you go "looking for a boyfriend" you may end up with the wrong kind of boy, one that will not treat you right or love you for the right reason. Never go looking for a boyfriend, it will just happen. Group outings can be just as fun.
2006-06-26 15:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, but you're only 14 years old. What's the rush? You are not missing anything. Enjoy your stress free life and don't worry about not having a boyfriend. You're time will come and when it does hopefully you're be ready to accept all the drama that goes with having a boyfriend.
2006-06-26 15:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's not important. Don't /look/ for a boyfriend!
In the future talk to guys, don't be shy. You'll end up (one day) talking to some really nice guy who you click with imediately and the two of you will be a cute couple :) What your fiends have now are just little flings. It makes them feel grown up, but really they're just setting themselves up for disaster.
Let your heart lead you.
2006-06-26 15:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mintminty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many people much older than you and still don't have a boyfriend. So don't feel bad if you don't have one at age 14.
2006-06-26 15:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14, too and am in the same situation. All of my friends have boyfriends. I think that I'm not pretty enough and my boobs aren't big enough. I wouldn't worry about it anymore. And that also means that I've never kissed a guy. EVER.
2006-06-26 15:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by roxy81492 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. don't try to get serious now, date around, you've got a long time to date! The biggest mistake I've ever made was staying with the wrong boy while I was in high school, I could'a dated a ton of guys, but I was involved with the same one...which looking back, was totally lame...
2006-06-26 15:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋