When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-06-29 01:53:20
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answered by Wolfie 7
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It's infatuation, which is sort of a mix of love and lust. Talk to the person, ask him or her out. Get it over with. The more you keep them as some fantasy figure in your mind, the more it will overcome you.
2006-06-26 15:08:52
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answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5
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You mean he is a real hear throb he got your tongue tied you have to break the ice or you you will never know. It really depends on what they look like between Tom Cruise or
Brad Pitt.
2006-06-26 15:17:53
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answered by Anonymous
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lust
2006-06-26 15:08:31
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answered by BellaDonna 5
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Depends on what exactly you're thinking of them lol
2006-06-26 15:08:24
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answered by Mintminty 2
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definately lust.
but that can be fun too!
2006-06-26 15:09:59
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answered by Duality4:20 2
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