i told my bestfriend something that i thought she wouldnt tell. but guess wat, she did. she told the boy what i had told her and then he called me and asked me why did i tell her all that stuff for because i wasnt supposed to tell. it was supposed to be between me and him. but her being my best friend for since elementary school and we are now in high school, i thought i could trust her. but i see that i cant. should i keep her as a friend. i mean theres no point in having a friend you cant trust right...i dont know what to do.
2006-06-26 08:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by smileygirl419 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know, i told something i wanst supposed to tell, but this is my bestfriend..now if u cant tell ur bestfriend something, who can u trust
2006-06-26 08:11:31 · update #1
Well let me just say that your friend isn't a real friend because they did that. you can always go to you parents but if your not comfortable with them then try to find someone that will never ever do that by tell them what happened. if they say "I'll never do that to you" then you can trust them. and you will feel it in your heart
Good Luck!
2006-06-26 08:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey, obviously neither of you is good at keeping confidences as you told your girl friend something you promised you would keep between only you and this boy. He has every right to be angry with you. How you can judge her for doing the exact same thing you did is showing your immaturity. I am not saying this in a mean way. If you are unable to keep a promise why should your friend be held to a higher standard than you are holding yourself?
When you begin to hold yourself to the same standards you wish to hold others to, then and only then will you have an expectation of any rights to have the same treatment returned to you. Obviously your friend knows you very well, and as such she is aware of your problem with keeping secrets, so she is not troubled with having the same behavior you do. I am sorry she told on you but what do you expect when you told in the first place?
Who can you trust? Start with yourself dear. Then you can expect others to do so as well and if they don't you can find those who treat you as you treat them. Until then, it sounds like you are two of a sort. Why abandon a friend who is only behaving as you do? Blessed Be.
2006-06-26 15:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are supposed to keep secrets. But nobody is perfect, dont judge your friend on this one incidence only.You have to take into account all the other things you have shared, and whether she has been this way in the past too. Ask yourself, weigh her good & bad points and you will know whether to give her another chance at friendship.
But dont tell her things you dont want others to know,in future. You can trust your parents, siblings, other friends, whoever you are close to.
2006-06-26 15:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is you can only trust youself.
Rule of thumb: if you know something you do not want others to know then 'keep it to yourself'?
2006-06-26 15:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ronald B303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep her as a friend. Now adays, it's hard to keep a freind for a few years.
2006-06-26 15:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust yourself and the choices you make in your life.
2006-06-26 15:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend and don't tell her any more deep stuff that is what I did when my friend told one of my deep stuff and we are still friends to this day OK!!!!!!
2006-06-26 15:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by italygirl4112010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no body just 3 people..I Me Myself ONLY!!!
2006-06-26 15:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋