We were talking for about an hour when he asked me out. i was sooo shocked because i thaught of him just as a friend. he's really goofy and fun to talk to. When i told him that i just wnated to be friends with him, he went into depression. He even claimed that he was going to commit suicide. Well, he's not that depressed anymore and i sort of have feelings for him. I always want to be around him and seeing his face really cheers me up. I want to ask him out...but i dont know if i really like him or if it's just out of pity! What should i do?
2006-06-26 07:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave the poor guy alone, if things dont work out if you do go out with him then you'll lose somebody you obviously care about. You'll probably just confuse him as well cause didnt you just tell him no, that would be enough for me to move on. Especially after he's already moved on out of his depression, do you want to be the cause of him going back into depression?
2006-06-26 08:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide once and for all. He's using emotional blackmail on you talking about suicide. That's just not cool. If you want the relationship, give him a second chance and try dating him. If not, put it out of your mind forever. Don't play him, and don't let him play games with you. You can be just friends. But realize he's hung up on you and wants to plant your field.
2006-06-26 15:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say think about that one song. You know, " Listen to your heart" REally think about it. WHat I say is did you really like this guy or ever think about it. I would say no because if a guy is willing to commit suicide just because you don't like him he's got some self esteem issues!
2006-06-26 15:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a week or two, the feelings may just be guilt, and will probably go away..if they don't ask him, but don't be surprised if he's over you by then
2006-06-26 15:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just ask him out
2006-06-26 15:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋