2006-06-26 07:58:47 · 31 answers · asked by THE_GURL_SO_SEXXI 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My friend thinks this because i get along with her guy better than she does and he likes to spend time with me more than her.
2006-06-26 08:10:30 · update #1
Be very, very calm about it when you talk to her. That'll take her off guard and let you two discuss the issue. Even if she gets all worked up, keep your cool. Tell her very simply that you've never done anything with her guy, and then ask her what makes her think that. Is it just that you've hung out with him, or has someone been lying to her? Why does she think her guy's stepping out on her? If she really thinks you were messing around with her guy, she'll be angry and want to fight. Don't retaliate and give her a reason to fight. Let her know that her lack of trust in you hurts when you haven't earned it. Be a friend, and she'll come around. The most important thing is to stay cool when you talk to her.
2006-06-26 08:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Beardog 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have a serious discussion about it with the friend. If the friend does not believe you then she is not a very good friend and you are better off without her. Sorry to have to tell you this but it is true. If a friend of mine told me it was not happening I would believe her as I only have friends I know and trust really well. Good luck with this. Talk with her and explain you would never do that and that you value her and her friendship very much. If this does not work, well, you have done all you can.
2006-06-26 15:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them and if they don't believe you tell them to ask their Boyfriend or girlfriend to tell them the truth. You shouldn't be spending time alone with your friend's significant other is the only other advice I can give. If you are then you probably shouldn't because it could lead to messing around.
2006-06-26 15:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her you have no interest in her boyfriend and that you would never do that to your friends. If she still doesn't believe you then maybe she's not a real friend. So then move on and make new friends. A true friend wouldn't keep accusing you of lieing.
2006-06-26 15:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit the person down and explain the facts.
If she thinks this, there must be some reason for it. Do you have a very close platonic relationship with her boyfriend? If so, maybe you should back off until it all blows over.
2006-06-26 15:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try setting up a dinner for the guy and your friend to go on a date or something. Arrange it by cooking dinner at your place and invite them separately and when they get there.....leave them alone.......if that dont convince her that you arent seeing her boyfriend then end the friendship because apparently it isnt a friendship or she would trust you better then that.
2006-06-26 15:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep my distance from their boy/girlfriend. My friend is more important to me, so i would try as much to avoid planting the seed of doubt in the first place. Moreover, my friend should know me by now .
2006-06-26 15:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by charmaine m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? If this person were a true friend then they would never doubt you. Unless of course you were giving the gf/bg any hints that you were interested. It all depends on how your attitude is around that person.
2006-06-26 15:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by rosebud1320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, is he/she cute?? Go for it, j/k no I'd try and reassure that friend that you wouldnt be a friend if you were messing around with his/ her girlfriend/boyfriend!!
2006-06-26 15:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by face9202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them why they would think such a thing and assure them its not happening. There is most likely a reason they are thinking that......get to the bottom of it.
2006-06-26 15:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋