If you love some one, why do they beat you are hit you? To me thats not love thats pain.people should be happy people should not be scared of the person you love. and some time the person you love might kill you.Peoples should be happy if something not right they should be able to sit and talk about it. they should help each other with they house work and the husband should help cook are talk about what is on his mind, if are she loss his are her job they should have a plan so bill could be paid because the numbe one problemly is money. from kissthecat
2006-06-26 07:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To answer your question, if someone TRULY loved you, they would not try to do anything to hurt you. Physical threatening is a strong sign that they DON'T love you.
2006-06-26 08:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is pain, pain is love.... the ones you love the most are the ones who actions would hurt you. if a stanger did something wrong to you, it would be hate mostly and not hurt. if someone you cared for did something wrong to you it would hurt more. people are just people they cant do something that they weren't brought up with, like: chores, cooking, money management. those are things that needs to be learned. just because you ask him to and he doesn't do it doesn't mean he doesn't care, but that's just his nature. he's not used to do it. think about yourself, whats something that he alwasy has to ask you to do, but you just never get around to it. maybe it's checking the oil in your car or organizing the garage a certain way. see it's just the person and what they're used to. sure you can learn how to adjust if you really really wanted to. praise him when he does do those things and don't nag. ask him maybe once or twice, but no more than that. he might not do it right away, but its on his list of to-do. and when you ask him and he argues, don't bring up things that do not invovle that issue, that would only escalate the issue and hurt more feelings.
2006-06-26 15:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Miss X♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the reason ppl hurt the ones they love is because from the time we're born there is usually someone that loves us no matter what. our mothers and fathers give us unconditional love and we grow up with that branded into our heads. no matter what we say or do, no matter how terrible we behave, those parents still love us.
money is usually the root of all problems. and when one is stressed out about money it does become difficult to sit down and work things out. just remember, it's not what happens to you in life, it's how you deal with it that matters. keep focused on whats important and dont get sidetracked, especially if your partner is the explosive type. stay centered
2006-06-26 15:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by rosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question starts out pretty normal. In answer to the normal part: If someone loves you they will not hurt you or hit you. Hitting is not a sign of love. If someone is hitting you, you need to get out right away and call the police.
The last pasrt of the question with the whole "kiss the cat" thing... I don't get it.
2006-07-03 16:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"it's so easy to laugh; it's so easy to cry; it takes strength to be gentle and kind." the smiths. just like the "america" most people will attack when threaten or harmed. rather than taking the higher road or a more practical route, most people will be mean or even violent to their loved ones. people who harm their family or mates know the weaknesses of their loved ones better than anyone else. that is why one must take a deep breath before responding when angry. emotions can have an evil togune. once one says a very mean thing rarely can one take it back.
2006-06-26 15:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by garcon1on1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, I have many questions to ask you. why do you trouble your mom or dint listen to her. Why do fight with your bro. Why do you feel jealous of friends new toy. I think we love then a lot and we wish that they should behave the way we want. we are possessive about them. we take then for a granted. we expect from OUR people. when We expect too much we don't get .....and then we feel that they are hurting us ...so lets stop expecting too much from this world. You wont get hurt. Be Happy ....
2006-06-26 15:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Night King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ones they love are the ones that annoy them the most i don't believe that though they aren't happy in their life so they make someone they love just as miserable sucks huh
2006-06-26 15:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a control issue with someone that abuses physically or mentally.
2006-06-26 15:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY DO THAT BECAUSE THEY HAVE LOST ALL RESPECT FOR YOU AS WELL AS THEMSELVES . THEY THINK THAT YOU ARE JUST THERE AND WONT SAY ANYTNHING TO ANYONE . THEY HAVE NO SHAME AROUND YOU THATS WHY.
2006-06-26 15:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its always the one you love
2006-06-26 15:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋