One of my closest friends since high school has turned into this huge mooch. She also whines about things all the time. In the past I've just distanced my self from her for about a month or two but lately I've just plain out ignored her, I love her and her son but I just can't support them.
2006-06-26 07:52:43 · 10 answers · asked by smartblonde060 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
friends tell the truth even if it hurts tell her to get off her *** and do something for herself and her kid
2006-06-26 07:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Be honest, even though it could hurt some feelings, but be honest and tell her how you have been feeling and how you don't appriciate her mooching off of you all the time. Like you said, mention that you love her and her son very much, but that it is not YOUR PLACE to be supporting them. If she starts nagging at you and saying that she does not mooch off of you, be honest and tell her everything and everytime when she has done it. Honesty is always the best answer.
2006-06-26 08:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honesty is your best bet..... Sit down and talk to her.... start out with the fact that you love her. Let her know it's hard tø see her whine all the time, and how you feel she is using your friendship to take advantage of you, and if thinging don't change, that will be the end of relationship.
2006-06-26 08:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by myocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for your rights, and tell her that you cannot deal with her ways anymore. Otherwise, just continue to distance yourself, and ignore her. Hopefully, she'll get the hint.
2006-06-26 07:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be as gentle as posible she may not even relize that shes being in you immortal words (and yes i am being sarcastic) a whiny mooch
2006-06-26 07:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by Princess N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO, i was in the same situation not too long ago, u need to keep doing what ur doing and just ignore her, she will get the hint.
2006-06-26 07:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, "i don't want to be friends with you because you're a whiny mooch."
2006-06-26 07:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tobin Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's a whiney mooch and your over it.
2006-06-26 07:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by AreYouForReal? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know what you think maybe she doesn't realize it
2006-06-26 07:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open and honest to her.......... people only do to you what you let them do.
2006-06-26 07:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋